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I frequently collect books and freebies, most tend to be in the range of moderately useful to moderately useless, Last week, I received "Nurture Your Divine Spirit" from the Unity Church This looks to be a really really good one. I usually look forward to the Advent book that they send out, but the others are hit or miss, this one however, is a HIT and it is free at their website unity.org

Here is an Excerpt on Forgiveness
What Is Forgiveness?
Forgiveness is the act of releasing ourselves from the bondage of an ongoing negative connection. Forgiveness resurrects our peace of mind from the perils of victimhood and releases our negative judgments.

Why Do We Forgive?
We forgive to reclaim our equilibrium. It is a joy to forgive. It’s also worthy of note that the “Lord’s Prayer” says, “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”

Jesus implored us to forgive anyone we are angry with. We will be released from bondage. Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves.

How Do We Forgive?
We make up our minds and our hearts to let go, knowing that carrying around anger and judgment toward others or ourselves is a burden we no longer wish to bear.

Beginning to Learn to Forgive
By Rev. Bill Englehart

Jesus was once asked how often one should forgive. Seven times? His response was, “Not seven times, but, I tell you seventy-seven times” (Matthew 18:21-22).

Seventy-seven is not a magic number. Earlier translations say seventy times seven, or 490. It was simply Jesus’ way of saying forgiveness can be infinite.

To understand forgiveness, we need to understand what it is not. It is not about condoning bad behavior or saying we must trust those who have mistreated us. It does not mean that there will be no justice for bad acts.

Consider this from H. Emilie Cady’s Lessons in Truth, written more than 100 years ago:

“To forgive does not simply mean to arrive at a place of indifference to those who do personal injury to us; it means far more than this. To forgive is to give for—to give some kind of actual definite good in return for evil given.”

This may seem like a tall order but when done, we can see the results straightaway. I have known parents who forgave the person who killed their child. When I asked why, they said that if they had not, they would be consumed with anger and bitterness. Forgiveness was the answer.

Forgiveness Affirmation

I forgive myself for my mistakes, and I forgive others for their mistakes, knowing none of us is perfect.
 
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I call it, letting myself off the hook. I have to keep reminding myself. The tricky bit is, when ringleaders in something-or-other claimed I was implicated alongside them. I have to content myself with walking away so I can hold my head up high, then to not fuss or try to figure out how I would see fit to have anything "done about them" because of all the time out of others' lives they have wasted. (In cases I'm thinking of, some other people knew about it anyway, and I'm past caring whether they had a realistic grasp.) I have to be strong minded to see it the way I need to see it, not as others imply I should. Thank you Rickardo for flagging up this essential ingredient in serenity.
 
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