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I will never post on these forums again.

I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.


I enjoyed conversing with everyone, and I really wish everyone (even those I disagree with vehemently) well.
 

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I will never post on these forums again.

I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.


I enjoyed conversing with everyone, and I really wish everyone (even those I disagree with vehemently) well.

Your goal is wrong. That is why.
 
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I will never post on these forums again.

I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.


I enjoyed conversing with everyone, and I really wish everyone (even those I disagree with vehemently) well.
I respect your decision.
 
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I will never post on these forums again.

I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.


I enjoyed conversing with everyone, and I really wish everyone (even those I disagree with vehemently) well.
:wave:
 
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I will never post on these forums again.

I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.


I enjoyed conversing with everyone, and I really wish everyone (even those I disagree with vehemently) well.
How do you know it is not working? because the person you are arguing with doesn't change their mind? That doesn't mean others not posting, but just reading along might see truths in your words and be affected by them. Sometimes what we seek may never be visible to us, but we may affect the lives of those around us and never know it.

I don't argue on here to convince the opposition of the errors of their ways, but so that others maybe reading but not posting who have questions may be able to glean something useful.

To convince the other side is useless.

"A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents and making them see the light, but rather because its opponents eventually die, and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it." Max Planck.

No amount of argument or fact will ever change anyone who believes they are right that they are wrong. But you might be helping those still on the fence that never say a word....
 
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If you expected to change minds you're in the wrong place. Just have fun (life is too short to take these debates seriously). ;) The best you can hope for is to bring other's bad opinions into the light of day.

Greater minds than ours have been trying to convince mankind that sin is bad for us, but people keep on sinning, and paying the price (been there, done that).
 
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I will never post on these forums again.I understand that given what I have said I sound like a hypocrite (posting for lurkers,) but I cannot continue to do something I know is not working.

So this last post is a good idea
or a bad one? I'm confused.
 
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How do you know it is not working? because the person you are arguing with doesn't change their mind? That doesn't mean others not posting, but just reading along might see truths in your words and be affected by them. Sometimes what we seek may never be visible to us, but we may affect the lives of those around us and never know it.

I don't argue on here to convince the opposition of the errors of their ways, but so that others maybe reading but not posting who have questions may be able to glean something useful.

To convince the other side is useless.

"A new scientific truth does not triumph by convincing its opponents and making them see the light, but rather because its opponents eventually die, and a new generation grows up that is familiar with it." Max Planck.

No amount of argument or fact will ever change anyone who believes they are right that they are wrong. But you might be helping those still on the fence that never say a word....

I had no goal other than philosophical and mathematical discussion in this case; I did not remove myself because of any poster on these forums.

That is the irony; despite the fact that all of us disagreed philosophically, the decision was made to stop that process with no warning. I have been on plenty of other disrespectful threads to the dead and living - where people verbally eviscerate each other. Something about this case was different.
 
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If you expected to change minds you're in the wrong place. Just have fun (life is too short to take these debates seriously). ;) The best you can hope for is to bring other's bad opinions into the light of day.

Greater minds than ours have been trying to convince mankind that sin is bad for us, but people keep on sinning, and paying the price (been there, done that).

I had no goal other than philosophical and mathematical discussion in this case; I did not remove myself because of any poster on these forums.

That is the irony; despite the fact that all of us disagreed philosophically, the decision was made to stop that process with no warning. I have been on plenty of other disrespectful threads to the dead and living - where people verbally eviscerate each other. Something about this case was different.

Even you and me have gone back and forth in a much more hostile manner (though, I didn't mind; we just vehemently disagreed.) Yet, our words remain...

I won't be posting on the particular forums that would appear to foster philosophical enrichment through mathematics and science. When you actually put those things up, it becomes a problem. No matter how controversial, the evidence shouldn't be squelched.
 
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I had no goal other than philosophical and mathematical discussion in this case; I did not remove myself because of any poster on these forums.

You tried to "discuss". That is a wrong goal.
More than often, you can not discuss in a normal way here.

However, if you have an issue, I think I can do some discussion.
Mathematical discussion? Hmm... Would it be hard?
 
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You tried to "discuss". That is a wrong goal.
More than often, you can not discuss in a normal way here.

However, if you have an issue, I think I can do some discussion.
Mathematical discussion? Hmm... Would it be hard?

There was nothing that would have been more ideal about the discussion except if we all agreed with each other. It truly was a discussion, and the level of mathematics and physics involved was paramount to the topic at hand.

However, that was squelched. When I see threads on other scientific topics, people are allowed to post all sorts of what one would call pseudoscience. When pure mathematical evidence was provided for a controversial topic, there was a silence.

It was very easy to speak with people who disagreed - and even converse with them after presenting them with pure mathematical evidence. In fact, when the evidence was put forth, there was a respect inherent in the discussion because of the level of the evidence presented.

Perhaps it is wrong to discuss on these forums in general - despite the actual forum monikers. For this reason, I will never attempt to provide any type of mathematical evidence for anything on these forums, and I will make sure to stay away from thread topics concerning the natural sciences and mathematics. The only reason I entertained those discussions is because of the amount of people who are bachelors, masters and doctors in their natural scientific field, and because I thought I could provide a positive contribution.

The person I was primarily conversing with was a master in his field (perhaps a doctor). We were having a very productive mathematical discussion about geometry. It won't happen with me again.


This thread was mainly for the participants of that thread that may have been blindsided by the sudden silence. I am already cognizant of the impossibility of discussion in most of these forums and sub-forums.
 
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There was nothing that would have been more ideal about the discussion except if we all agreed with each other. It truly was a discussion, and the level of mathematics and physics involved was paramount to the topic at hand.

However, that was squelched. When I see threads on other scientific topics, people are allowed to post all sorts of what one would call pseudoscience. When pure mathematical evidence was provided for a controversial topic, there was a silence.

It was very easy to speak with people who disagreed - and even converse with them after presenting them with pure mathematical evidence. In fact, when the evidence was put forth, there was a respect inherent in the discussion because of the level of the evidence presented.

Perhaps it is wrong to discuss on these forums in general - despite the actual forum monikers. For this reason, I will never attempt to provide any type of mathematical evidence for anything on these forums, and I will make sure to stay away from thread topics concerning the natural sciences and mathematics. The only reason I entertained those discussions is because of the amount of people who are bachelors, masters and doctors in their natural scientific field, and because I thought I could provide a positive contribution.

The person I was primarily conversing with was a master in his field (perhaps a doctor). We were having a very productive mathematical discussion about geometry. It won't happen with me again.


This thread was mainly for the participants of that thread that may have been blindsided by the sudden silence. I am already cognizant of the impossibility of discussion in most of these forums and sub-forums.

Get to the meat. What is the issue to "discuss"?
 
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Get to the meat. What is the issue to "discuss"?

It was already discussed and squelched. That is the reason why I will never post on here about the "meat," or any related "side dishes." I am not wasting more knowledge and information on another argument or squelching when I have seen the best of christianforums.com discussion and debate. Going back to a cheap substitute (the usual fare on here) would be ignorant and silly.

This thread was meant as a courtesy for the persons with which I was conversing in the squelched thread. As you can see, people who only have quips felt the need to give their sentiments about it something that didn't concern them - which is why they got no response (which, was also a curtousey.) That is the typical spiritual vampirism I would rather stay away from - even in its basic bait form.

Everyone else is free to discuss whatever, but the intention of this thread was not to discuss anything.
 
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You do now.

This is an example of the usual fare on CF. I am used to this, in fact - because it is so hackneyed here. Comment without understanding context.

But the thread that I and others were apart of - that was squelched - did not (ultimately) lack the couth one would expect from an enriching philosophical discussion about controversial topics.

Clearly, that is a novelty on these forums, as it seems the frozen-in temperament on the discussion/debate forums is that of hostility and incredulity.
 
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It was already discussed and squelched. That is the reason why I will never post on here about the "meat," or any related "side dishes." I am not wasting more knowledge and information on another argument or squelching when I have seen the best of christianforums.com discussion and debate. Going back to a cheap substitute (the usual fare on here) would be ignorant and silly.

This thread was meant as a courtesy for the persons with which I was conversing in the squelched thread. As you can see, people who only have quips felt the need to give their sentiments about it something that didn't concern them - which is why they got no response (which, was also a curtousey.) That is the typical spiritual vampirism I would rather stay away from - even in its basic bait form.

Everyone else is free to discuss whatever, but the intention of this thread was not to discuss anything.

After your first post, you should not come back.
 
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After your first post, you should not come back.

This entire thread was not for everyone; you didn't have to respond (especially since you have no idea what I am talking about.)

But alas, you prove why the thread is such a nostalgic treasure lost: you just want to argue (as most sophomoric lot do on these forums). None of the people who responded have anything to do with the thread in question (including you). Perhaps you should find some business of your own, and stop telling people what to do.

Or not.
 
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This entire thread was not for everyone; you didn't have to respond (especially since you have no idea what I am talking about.)

But alas, you prove why the thread is such a nostalgic treasure lost: you just want to argue (as most sophomoric lot do on these forums). None of the people who responded have anything to do with the thread in question (including you). Perhaps you should find some business of your own, and stop telling people what to do.

Or not.
Don't mind him. He is under the delusion that he is everyone's teacher.
 
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