Still been thinking a lot about all of this, especially since I have been a part of a ministry at our church called 'Freedom Session'. Essentially it is a Christian 12-Step ministry, but the teaching is beginning to focus a lot on deliverance ministry things that I am somewhat familiar with (i.e. Neil Anderson and the like...) and coming against the Devil and 'demonic attacks' on our home, behavior, attitudes, and what-not. My problem with all of this is that I keep coming back to the teaching that I took the quote from. Rev. Stoneking based it off of Galatians 5: 16-21 (he uses the KJV, this is the ESV):
"But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the desires of the flesh are against the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are against the flesh, for these are opposed to each other, to keep you from doing the things you want to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God".
And this from a strict Pentecostal preacher who has taught extensively on the supernatural, angels, demonic influence, etc. But his first response is that when there is trouble in the life of the believer, the reaction should be to look for what area of the person's life they may be engaged in sin, and to address that first. As he says in the same message "You can rout out the Devil in seconds at the Name of Jesus", hence we need to be diligent about our walk with Christ first before assigning blame elsewhere.