me and my husband have recently reconciled and he has moved into my house well i am having problems adjusting to him moving things around i have ocd pretty bad when it comes to the kitchen. it is currently 445 am here and well hes in bed im up cleanign the house that him and the kids trashed after i fell asleep from a dose of benedryl because i got stung by a bee on my nose that flew in the car window (i have a slight allergy to bees) him and i watched a movie then he went to bed im very upset i mean the house has been a mess i mean an unsafe mess since he moved in a nd all i hear from him is im working on it and all i see is i clean up the house and him an d the kids go and trash it right behind me. i feel my being upset is justifiable.... i have tried to talk to him about it time after time and all i get is "im sorry" or "iom working on it" its either plants on the patio hes messing with or wiring his prayer alter he has set up. sorry those things are not prioity when it comes to making our home a safe comfortable place for our children. am i worng on being upset with what is going on? how can i handle this better?