my 1st post
I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible but who knows what these fingers will do
I was home a few weeks ago in Florida on leave from South Carolina where I'm in the Air Force. I went with a friend on Sunday evening to listen to a band play at a place on the beach. We had been there for a lil while and then I saw her. A girl I had gone to high school and church with that I hadn't seen in 4+ years. She ran up and gave me a hug and totally took my breath away. We got to talking and she had said how she was just talking about me the other day. We played catch up for a hour or so and then it was time to go. I told her were we would be later that night and asked her to swing by. She did stop by to have dinner with a few girlfriends that were in town for the weekend. As I was about to leave I finally worked up the courage to ask for her number. We ended up hanging out a few times and I took her to dinner with my family. We went to dinner one night to talk about "us". We both said that we felt a third hand in our friendship, a truly higher force guiding us. We both decided that its something that shouldn't be ignored and that we felt moved to start dating. I left for SC two days later (last Sunday) and it was truly one of the hardest goodbyes I have ever had to make. We talk everyday (so far at least twice) although I'm sure that will change as she goes back to Collage. I'm so thankful that God has brought such a awesome girl into my life. It seems to me that when you least expect it great things happen.
Now that you know the story I will get to the part where I need help. Nether of us have ever been in a long distance relationship, and we are looking to get all the Christian advise we can to make this work. So if you have ever been in one that worked or even on that didn't could you please share with me the do's and don'ts. From what I have read you should make rules. ex: talk every day, never get off the phone mad/upset. That kinda thing. any advise would help. thanks in advance. -Sean
I'm going to try and keep this as short as possible but who knows what these fingers will do
I was home a few weeks ago in Florida on leave from South Carolina where I'm in the Air Force. I went with a friend on Sunday evening to listen to a band play at a place on the beach. We had been there for a lil while and then I saw her. A girl I had gone to high school and church with that I hadn't seen in 4+ years. She ran up and gave me a hug and totally took my breath away. We got to talking and she had said how she was just talking about me the other day. We played catch up for a hour or so and then it was time to go. I told her were we would be later that night and asked her to swing by. She did stop by to have dinner with a few girlfriends that were in town for the weekend. As I was about to leave I finally worked up the courage to ask for her number. We ended up hanging out a few times and I took her to dinner with my family. We went to dinner one night to talk about "us". We both said that we felt a third hand in our friendship, a truly higher force guiding us. We both decided that its something that shouldn't be ignored and that we felt moved to start dating. I left for SC two days later (last Sunday) and it was truly one of the hardest goodbyes I have ever had to make. We talk everyday (so far at least twice) although I'm sure that will change as she goes back to Collage. I'm so thankful that God has brought such a awesome girl into my life. It seems to me that when you least expect it great things happen.
Now that you know the story I will get to the part where I need help. Nether of us have ever been in a long distance relationship, and we are looking to get all the Christian advise we can to make this work. So if you have ever been in one that worked or even on that didn't could you please share with me the do's and don'ts. From what I have read you should make rules. ex: talk every day, never get off the phone mad/upset. That kinda thing. any advise would help. thanks in advance. -Sean