Need some advice

[Holdinfourth]

Ok, This gets a little complicated so try to keep up.

1.)I met this great girl (I wil call her Jane) last year, very spiritual, very attractive. We have been in contact allot over the last year, and have grown to be very close friends. Although, most of my friends have told me to go after her and pursue a relationship with her, there is one problem - She is my brothers fiances roomate. So, this has not been an easy thing for me, considering that neither my brother or his fiance have been very much against this from the start. when we are together, it seems like we have to "hide" our feelings from the dating nazi's. I really do not want to be fighting with my brother or his fiance, and really do not want to hurt either of them.

This is where it gets complicated, I have had a non-dating drought for about a year and a half, and all of the sudden I am dating more in the last month than I have in the last 2 years (that is including dating my ex). I really enjoy the company of both of the women I met as of late, but, now that college is over for the summer, "Jane" called and would like to get together. I really do not want to string along any of these girls, in the case that I might end up leading someone on and hurting them. Now I have a hard time choosing who and when I should go out with. (I know, poor guy has to choose between girls. Really this kind of stuff does not usually happen to me. I am the self proclaimed WORLDS BIGGEST MORON when it comes to talking to girls that I am attracted to)

I just need some advice here. I am at a loss and don't know what to do.

 

[Breetai]

Go for the girl that you feel the most attracted to. Who cares if some people disagree? They'll get over it.

 

[JPPT1974]

Be friends first and foremost because being a friend is making that first impression as well as pray to the Lord if this is meant to be either friendship or even more. May the Lord bless and keep you!!