My husband left me months ago and I now believe he has another woman in his life. I just found phone records that he has been talking to his ex-wife. I shouldn't be this lost over this, I knew it had to be something. He couldn't give me a real reason why he was leaving. I just don't know how to get anymore strength to handle this pain. I know I can handle anything with God. He has carried me before. But these storms don't stop. I can hardly breathe anymore. I am so mixed up. I want to be strong, I have two kids that need me but I just don't know how do to it anymore. I am so tired of just trying to get out of bed in the morning. Please help me pray for strength, wisdom and comfort. I'm dying inside.
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wonderwaleye
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Dear LostWithoutYou
You said:
" He has carried me before. "
When GOD did this, DID YOU:
1. Give HIM thanks and praise?
2. Pick up HIS LOVE NOTE to you and read it till it was locked in your heart?
3. Decide once and for all to commit your whole life to GOD and HIS WILL?
4. From that day forward ask GOD to guide your every step?
5. Seek GOD in all decisions?
If not, it's not to late to do it NOW.
I only read and post on this and the bipolar site so I can't tell you about the rest, but it also might be good for you to go to the bipolar site and get advise on depression.
I'm bipolar and know the REAL PAIN of depression.
LIFE CAN REALLY REALLY MISERABLE IF WE FAIL TO REMEMBER:
XEven though you can't see Him, GOD is there!O
( click on the X and move to the O ) ( then feel who is around you ) steven
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Angelvic_83
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Dear GodLostWithoutYou said:
I pray for this woman 'lost without you', I pray that she would know the peace that you have promised to those who love you, I pray that you would reveal Your will in the situation Lord. I pray for the children invloved and also this woman that you would surround them with your love and protection at this time. I pray that the adulterous husband would be drawn back to you and that he would desire to repent and make amends for the hurt he has caused those closest to him, i pray that you would guide him to where he needs to be to fulfill your will for his life, Lord.
I pray these thing in Jesus name,
Amen
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Dear Lord, I pray for Lostwithoutyou for strength and courage to face each day. I pray for the reconcilliation of the marriage; that the husband would be convicted of his sin. Thank you Lord. Amen
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LostWithoutYou said:
Father in heaven,I come to you in prayer.Holy Spirit I invite your presence.Lord forgive us of our sins,that we may be able to bring You our needs through prayer....Lord you have said to pray for on another.
Father I lift up my sister to You.
Jesus she needs Your guidance Your strength.Lord were we are we You are our strength.Pled the blood of Jesus over this situation.God of shalom give my sister Peace of mind.
Send her wisdom and knowledge of how to proceed.Lord we know that through our trials You work great things.
IS 41:10 NCV
Don't worry, because I am with you.
don't be afraid,because I am your God.
I will make you strong and I will help you.
Heb 4:16....NIV
"You have invited us to come boldly to the throne of Grace,that we may obtain Mercy in the time of need"
Prov 24:16 NIV
"A rightious man may fall 7 times and rise again"
IS 40:31 NIV
"Those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength,they shall mount up wiyh wings like eagles,they shall run and not be weary,they shall walk and not faint"
Lord we stand on Your word...
Bring comfort and an answer to her pain Lord God.
IS 41:10 NCV
Don't worry,because I am with you.
Don't be afaid,Iam your God.
I will make you strong and will help you.
In Jesus mighty name I ask.Your will not ours Lord,be done.
I thank You in advance for the works your going to do Lord.We claim it in Your mighty name
Amen
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Give yourself time to grieve, obviously this has seriously hurt you.
Cry. Be hurt.
Then move on, God only promises the best for those that love Him, and He askes us "not to lean upon our own understanding". We need to lean on Him.
You have two children who need you, they lost a father as well remember. Pray hard, ask the Lord to help keep the storms at bay, and when they do break loose, ask to be protected.
You have to do the one thing that you don't want to do. You have to let it go, release the feelings that make you feel the way you do and give them to the Lord. Let Him take care of your feelings. You have to care for your children now. It's sounds hard, and I'm sure it will be, but focus on your children and not on yourself, focus on God, and He'll help you.
You are His child and He will be there to help you no matter what happenes.
I'll be praying for you, your husband and your children.
~Jenka
Cry. Be hurt.
Then move on, God only promises the best for those that love Him, and He askes us "not to lean upon our own understanding". We need to lean on Him.
You have two children who need you, they lost a father as well remember. Pray hard, ask the Lord to help keep the storms at bay, and when they do break loose, ask to be protected.
You have to do the one thing that you don't want to do. You have to let it go, release the feelings that make you feel the way you do and give them to the Lord. Let Him take care of your feelings. You have to care for your children now. It's sounds hard, and I'm sure it will be, but focus on your children and not on yourself, focus on God, and He'll help you.
You are His child and He will be there to help you no matter what happenes.
I'll be praying for you, your husband and your children.
~Jenka
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Sister, you are in my prayers. I have gone through a good amount of abuse in my life by men and I still always remembered that God loved me truly and purely.
Give your heart and soul some time to rest and start dedicating extra time to reading the Bible, reading through devotionals, talking to a priest or pastor, and fellowshipping with other Christians.
It hurts...alot.... and I know how impossible it is to do any simple task when you're heart and soul are completely torn. But when you fall into the love of God and of His Church... your Brothers and Sisters will catch you and help you through this.
God bless you and I pray you'll get through this very soon.
Give your heart and soul some time to rest and start dedicating extra time to reading the Bible, reading through devotionals, talking to a priest or pastor, and fellowshipping with other Christians.
It hurts...alot.... and I know how impossible it is to do any simple task when you're heart and soul are completely torn. But when you fall into the love of God and of His Church... your Brothers and Sisters will catch you and help you through this.
God bless you and I pray you'll get through this very soon.
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