need help

[delmec]

hi to all on this site, 5 weeks ago on november 18th , my wife of 37 years marriage passed away, after being take by cancer after only being ill for 6 weeks, the day before she died, we were told the cancer was terminal and she had maybe week or at best a few months to live, she had ablood clot which killed her almost instantley, we have two grown up daughters. the eldest joanne, gave birth to twins the day before my wife died, anyway enough of my history, i am feeling terrible and just need some kind of support from other people going through this yours hpefully delmec

 

[NoelAsa]

Welcome delmec to Christian Forums. I am so sorry to hear about your wife's death. Since her death is so recent I am sure that you are still in shock and that is normal. I am glad that you have come here for some support.

My husband died about 4 1/2 years ago from cancer. It was very difficult for me, especially the first year. I know that you are grieving for her and having the holidays with her gone makes it even worse.

 

[delmec]

so nice to know that there are people out there who care god bless delmec

 

[NoelAsa]

When you are up to it you might want to consider grief counseling. I know that a lot of men are not interested in it, but I found it really helped me a lot. Praying for you.

 

[hopetoheal]

Dear Delmec,

I'm so sorry about your dear wife. My husband died after a sudden illness only 7 weeks ago yesterday. God will hold us up during this dark night of the soul. Let's all promise we'll pray for one another-- so you all know you are loved and have support at this time.

 

[ComesoonmyLORD]

Delmec, so sorry about your loss. You are embarking on a road not new to the ones here. We've all experienced what you are now experiencing. You need to know that you are not alone, you are not forgotten and you WILL survive. It takes time and prayer. Just remember you are never alone. Our Lord and Savior is catching each tear that falls. He loves you and will comfort you. Take it one day at a time. Press On!

 

[delmec]

tkank you for that

 

[NoelAsa]

Delmec, I hope that you are doing better. It is a long process going through the grief. It does get better, but you just need to take each day one at a time. Praying that you are receiving strength from God and leaning on Him.

 

[Christianwidow]

hi to all on this site, 5 weeks ago on november 18th , my wife of 37 years marriage passed away, after being take by cancer after only being ill for 6 weeks, the day before she died, we were told the cancer was terminal and she had maybe week or at best a few months to live, she had ablood clot which killed her almost instantley, we have two grown up daughters. the eldest joanne, gave birth to twins the day before my wife died, anyway enough of my history, i am feeling terrible and just need some kind of support from other people going through this yours hpefully delmec

I am praying for you, Delmec.

Christian Widow

 

[ThyLovingkindness]

Hi, I'm also a widow, of 8 years. I wish to offer you my deepest condolences, and sincere blessings to you and your family.

 

[wolfee]

Hi Delmec
So sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. My husband passed away 5 months ago - he had been fighting cancer for 5 years.
God bless you and all your family