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Hello Everyone,

I'm kinda new to this, I have lived in sin most of my
life. I don't know how to love! I've just been saved
and I kinda feel that I have been forgiven, but I can't
seem to forgive myself for what I have done in my
teens and adult life.

I ask you guys to teach me how to Love and how to
forgive myself. I want to love my wife, I want to love
God, and I want to feel to love of others who love me.

Please, I ask for pray, as I am always in thought of
hurting myself. God Bless You All!

Billy
 

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Hello Everyone,

I'm kinda new to this, I have lived in sin most of my
life. I don't know how to love! I've just been saved
and I kinda feel that I have been forgiven, but I can't
seem to forgive myself for what I have done in my
teens and adult life.

I ask you guys to teach me how to Love and how to
forgive myself. I want to love my wife, I want to love
God, and I want to feel to love of others who love me.

Please, I ask for pray, as I am always in thought of
hurting myself. God Bless You All!

Billy

I will pray for you, an I ask you pRay for me... Cuz I know exactly how you feel


You know friends forgiving yourself is the biggest job you will ever face - for you know what you have life in.

Firstly you will need to learn that to be able to forgive ourself you must forgive everyone who sins or sinned against us - always give out grace if you want to recieve it.

Secondly I found that when we trust in Jesus - THE LIVING/incarnated WORD - we are never condemned - so we must learn to have faith at all times - from when we are in our confidant self to when we the weasel rule and all ourselves in between!

Once your whole inner being has come into His Peace (Hebrews 3 & 4:1-12) your battle will be over! And Jesus and our Heavenly Father will dwell right within your heart - where now guilt, shame, fear and desolation dwells life will be good once more. For our life is bliss with God - even when the going is hard.


So please learn the Bible by heart - that means read it as a personal address to your inner world of being - only ever read the Bible in love for God, yourself and your neighbour - it tends to cause much harm when it is read outside of The Holy Spirit within - but is unspeakable awesome in when read in love.

Never let go of His forgiveness for only letting go of that cannot be forgiven!:hug:

Much love your way.
 
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Hello Everyone,

I'm kinda new to this, I have lived in sin most of my
life. I don't know how to love! I've just been saved
and I kinda feel that I have been forgiven, but I can't
seem to forgive myself for what I have done in my
teens and adult life.

I ask you guys to teach me how to Love and how to
forgive myself. I want to love my wife, I want to love
God, and I want to feel to love of others who love me.

Please, I ask for pray, as I am always in thought of
hurting myself. God Bless You All!

Billy

It's been a over a year now an I can love, but I still
need help, please pray for me.

>>>---->Billy
 
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It's been a over a year now an I can love, but I still
need help, please pray for me.

>>>---->Billy

Billy it is good to see that there is growth!

The job ahead is hard and full of peril, you better be well guarded my friend. in time to come forces of control will come - alive within you - who will try and stop the growth of love or even worse control it to serve their own will and glory watch-out for all that has life in worldly thinking of selfish nature - anti-Christ to be.

As God's love grows within you

Ten kings will come and rule their hour!

These are times when the strings in your flesh will try to captivate you to their will through your big ego and so rob your freedom to be yourself from you making you captive to their will - which always burns in demand - both good and bad they burn - it is best to to be well guarded about all that

Those kings within your inner being will be linked back to Satan's control tower within you.

Having said this - The Word growing in Spirit of Loving Truth within you is the Way to proceed!:thumbsup: No words can speak His awesome holiness and power, He Himself is the One you want to find dwelling within you in His Holy Temple ruling from Zion with His 144, 000 Holy Ones. (John 14, Rev 4-7, 21-22)

If you serve our God of Truthful Love - truthfully - and like Him forgive yourself your sins and also your neighbours sins, and walk in a humbly loving fruit bearing S(s)pirit, then you know that God's Kingdom in you has Come of Age and True Freedom will break His Day from Day to Day. Where wrong serves right and right rules life and Jesus is our Delight and Heavenly places our constant walk of L(l)ife.

To love God above all, yourself like He loves you and other like He loved you - is what He requires as prerequisite, when you find yourself bearing fruits of loving nature then you now that God has dwelling within and The Word will reveal the son of lawlessness hiding behind our sin, where ego-centric spirit will try and rob control of Salvation but will be cut down - time and again - at His Coming to Life in our flesh.

So please do always repent of all prideful or arrogant thoughts or actions, humble yourself before Him who is Truthfully Loving and so follow The Master Home.:amen:

So yes I gladly pray for you and for your protection from the enemy. I hope you stay free to love and resist those mutilators of the flesh who always want you to do things for God, without loving truth being the Driving Force, but compelling must 'cleans up God's Good Life':cool:, bringing stress and hard work your way each time you fall.:o

To love means in my books - to Eat Him and Drink Him and then to share Him out as He grows for all to enjoy His Good Life with us all!:)
 
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Please dear Father and Brother be with this Your child hurting. Please give Him durability, strength to cope, love for You, himself and other and bring in a rich harvest even when depressed deep.

In The Name of Jesus who bought us, I ask!

Amen:prayer:
 
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