need help

kyle123 · Mar 22, 2008

i have a mild form of aspbergurs but with my adhd it affects my relationship with god and other people. ive prayed for healing and its been years. am i ever going to get healed? because its hard to think to have a relationship with others and god when u can only think of urself. any advice?

HazelAngel · Mar 22, 2008

Soz, I dont have any advice but I will pray for u to get betta and kinda undastand ur AS and ADHD. I dunno if u will eva get better but I think its impossible but I really hope u do get better.

IndomitableAmy · Mar 22, 2008

You don't have to worry about being good enough for God. He created you good enough, I promise. God loves you just as you are. I guess... do the very best you can and God will handle the rest. That's my advice, do the best you can. Right now, whether you realize it or not, God loves you just as you are.

HazelAngel · Mar 22, 2008

ur right InomitableArmy. God loves u just the way u r Kyle123 and I guess he has no desire to change how u look, he made u perfect the way he made u.

kyle123 · Mar 22, 2008

thanks

HazelAngel · Mar 23, 2008

U r welcome Kyle123.

joris · Mar 23, 2008

It may help if I share what was told to me... you may be a blessing without ever realizing it. Your different thinking, may help others.

Because of autism, you face a lot of difficulties. God knows the struggling you go through to have relationships, the pain you have as it's again not working out, the frustration and perhaps, at times anger, towards yourself, or towards others, or perhaps also to God, that it's like that and that they don't always see, or respond in ways helpfull, or that you at times feel left out.

I have a lot of struggling there too... also finding, it's can be so difficult, me wishing God to be that Best Friend, but... well, He speaks in other ways. Most people find that difficult, though uncertainty and feelings of lacking in relationships make it seem worse (and perhaps it is, but He's wanting to help make it become better)

What I was told, uhm, a few months ago, is, that if you do something that's, well, hard to you, for God, it's so precious to Him.

Perhaps that's... He knows these things are hard to you, but He's not angry or dissapointed.
He is excited and so proud of you if through all of that you keep trying...

I hope that's somewhat a help to you; hope am making sence, am just writing out some thoughts now

joris · Mar 24, 2008

It may help if I share what was told to me... you may be a blessing without ever realizing it. Your different thinking, may help others.

Because of autism, you face a lot of difficulties. God knows the struggling you go through to have relationships, the pain you have as it's again not working out, the frustration and perhaps, at times anger, towards yourself, or towards others, or perhaps also to God, that it's like that and that they don't always see, or respond in ways helpfull, or that you at times feel left out.

I have a lot of struggling there too... also finding, it's can be so difficult, me wishing God to be that Best Friend, but... well, He speaks in other ways. Most people find that difficult, though uncertainty and feelings of lacking in relationships make it seem worse (and perhaps it is, but He's wanting to help make it become better)

What I was told, uhm, a few months ago, is, that if you do something that's, well, hard to you, for God, it's so precious to Him.

Perhaps that's... He knows these things are hard to you, but He's not angry or dissapointed or such
He is excited and so proud of you as through all of that you keep trying...

I hope that's somewhat a help to you

Pinki · Mar 24, 2008

I think there are several ways to "get healing".

Yes - God can heal! And yes, we can pray!

One thing that I think some people can get too "spiritual" about is medication. God also gave us wisdom. and there are some really great medical experts out there, that put their God given wisdom into practice! There are medications which can help with your ADHD - see if you (and your doctor) can sort out what is best for you.

With regard to your aspbergurs, be aware of what situations and circumstances are likely to "set you off" and pray first. In some cases, it might be wiser to avoid those situations, but at other times, taking a supportive friend or relative, or just mentally preparing yourself may help you to stay in "control".

Yes, pray, but also use wisdom - your wisdom, and the wisdom of medical professionals. I hope that helps!

NicoleB76 · Mar 27, 2008

Kyle,
I

NicoleB76 · Mar 26, 2008

Kyle,
I know it's hard to hear, but God doesn't make mistakes. He has a use for you, he just hasn't shown it too you yet. Absolutely keep praying, but don't be dissappointed, keep listening to Him and finding peace in Him.

NicoleB76 · Mar 27, 2008

Kyle,
I know it's hard to hear, but God doesn't make mistakes. He has a use for you, he just hasn't shown it too you yet. Absolutely keep praying, but don't be dissappointed, keep listening to Him and finding peace in Him.

Sabertooth · Mar 27, 2008

As far as caring for others, pray for others as you remember them or as God lays them on your heart. Through this, God will cause your love to grow for them.

I usually send up a prayer, also, when I hear a siren going by. That is usually an indicator of some kind of crisis.

I have some of the same concerns you have, but I believe if we walk in the light God has given us, He'll give us more, ASD or not.

HazelAngel · Apr 1, 2008

NicoleB76 is right Kyle. God doesnt make mistakes, he made u just the way u were ment to be wether ppl dont like it or not, that is the hard truth Kyle.

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