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Need Help With Sinful Thoughts

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Hi, I'm Fahim, I am struggling to deal with some sinful thoughts that have entered my head in the past couple of months. I need advice on how to combat these issues, and whether or not some can be classified as sin.

There is essentially a really cute girl (who is not of the same religion) in one of my classes, and I keep getting thoughts to pat her on the head, playing with her hair, laying down onto her lap, and cuddling her. I am not sure if these are considered sin, as we are not in even in the most basic form of a relationship, but the prevalence of these thoughts are distracting me in class and are driving me away from my religion.

Thanks,
Fahim.
 

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