Need help finding the right christian girl.

[BoazB]

OP: My suggestion. Google with God.

 

[AgapeBible]

Hello Supersaint, you sound like a nice guy. I would be interested in getting to know you and being friends. i wish I could get out more and have more friends, get to know more people but I do not know what to say to strangers, I am kind of shy, but I'm not shy online like I am in real life. I don't have a job or go to school so I do my socializing online. I go to church and have church friends. i thought about doing volunteer work...I take art lessons sometimes but usually the women in the art classes are so much older than me...

 

[mechman]

you've got alot of good info here. in my opinion dont worry about finding the person. just make relationships and decide in time when it should progress to the next lvl.

 

[Sketcher]

If you're single, have you ever had that feeling when you see a girl or had a glimpse of a girl and something in your mind tells you that maybe you should go talk to her? I sometimes ask God to direct me to my future wife and reserve her for me only. How can I know when to talk to that special someone or any girl in particular?

I would say drop this. It just leads to people making assumptions and getting possessive early.

 

[JPPT1974]

you've got alot of good info here. in my opinion dont worry about finding the person. just make relationships and decide in time when it should progress to the next lvl.

Good way of putting it my friend
Very good way!

 

[KomissarSteve]

I would say drop this. It just leads to people making assumptions and getting possessive early.

Very good advice. There's quite honestly nothing less-attractive to women than getting too clingy in the early stages of a relationship.

 

[mechman]

Very good advice. There's quite honestly nothing less-attractive to women than getting too clingy in the early stages of a relationship.

lol half the time if you ignore girls the seem to be attracted to you more, makes you "mysteriouse"

 

[KomissarSteve]

lol half the time if you ignore girls the seem to be attracted to you more, makes you "mysteriouse"

Well, that too, but more than anything, it makes you seem independent. Girls like guys that don't exactly "need" them off the bat - if you can give the impression that you could easily have "other options" (ie: successfully pursue other girls), you become a lot more of a hot commodity. That way, not only does the girl you're pursuing not take you for granted as much, but you also make her feel pretty good, too - after all, if you could have another girl (or other girls, for that matter), yet you've chosen to pursue her in particular, that must mean she's pretty special, mustn't it?

Human psychology is great, isn't it? It's so predictable in some situations, and completely random in so many other situations.