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See, you can't win when you ask other guys for advice about things like this.

If you're upfront, they'll say you're going to crush his ego and completely destroy his feelings.

If you don't say anything, they'll say you're sending mixed signals and playing with his emotions.

Good luck!

MY advice is to not say anything, but make it obvious by not returning the flirting, that you aren't interested in anything.

Inkabink, men don't have feelings. The answer with men is almost always to tell them straight up at the very first hint that something subtle won't work. Your advice is what she has been doing and what has not been effective so far.
 
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