I cannot ask anyone for help at my church who knows me in person because I am too ashamed to bring up such a topic, but maybe I can get help here. I will be 26 years old on August 26th. I am a virgin. I have never laid with a man. Ever. I am waiting until I get married to have sex. As time goes on, waiting becomes more and more difficult. Sex seems to be on my mind constantly. I think about it multiples a day. It tends to be the last thing on my mind before going to sleep and the first thing on my mind upon waking up. Everyone who knows me (especially the non-Christian people I know) view me as the goody-goody virgin Christian girl and I imagine have no idea that such thoughts circulate through my head. I don't know what to do about my lust problem. I really want to have sex, but I don't want to break my devotion to God as I made the decision at a young age to wait. It's safe to say that I won't be getting married anytime soon as I have no one special. I know that being abstinent has played a role in me still being single as it is often a turn off for a lot of guys. Any advice on how to cope with lust?