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I am new to ChristianForums...but not new internet forums. I'm old enough to remember when the Internet was "new" and just a fad that would soon pass.:ebil:

Anyway, been navigating around quite a bit lurking in numerous threads...and I must say that even cynical old me is surprised by the amount of anti-Catholicism: most, apparently due to misinformation as well as just good ol' fashioned ignorance...but some of it is just straight up animus. I know that this is a multi-denominational/non-denomination forum...so water off a duck's back and all. Everybody is entitled to their opinion.

At this point: I am deciding how I want to engage on this forum. I have a formal theological education I received while a seminarian...want to put it to good use in service of the Church.

My question to fellow Catholics (as well as Orthodox who may be reading this): how have you decided to participate in this massive forum?

I try to stay here in OBOB and the Ancient Way as well as I lurk in Traditional Theology. I visit other places from time to time. Your assessment is right about the Forum
 
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With rare exceptions I just skip the anti-Catholic drivel. There are some decent ecumenical discussions but not many. For the most part it is uninformed and uninformable bigotry.
But... we have those that went to Catholic School, attended the Church or say they were raised Catholic, etc. that are just as misinformed. (I knew my Catholic so and so that did this, etc.) which makes them think they are somehow informed while spouting fallacies about Catholic teachings. Those types are a thing too. Why not just check out the Catechism for themselves.
 
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But... we have those that went to Catholic School, attended the Church or day they were raised Catholic, etc. that are just as misinformed. I knew Catholic so and so that did this, etc. which makes them think they are somehow informed while spouting fallacies about Catholic teachings. Those types are a thing too.

Indeed. They make life difficult for those outside aspiring to learn about Catholicism! I found the best books to read were those written by those outside who came home, because they knew the mindset of Protestants, and also researched the truth about Catholicism.
 
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But... we have those that went to Catholic School, attended the Church or say they were raised Catholic, etc. that are just as misinformed. (I knew my Catholic so and so that did this, etc.) which makes them think they are somehow informed while spouting fallacies about Catholic teachings. Those types are a thing too. Why not just check out the Catechism for themselves.
Most of them won't even know there is a Catechism of the Catholic Church. Because who bothered to tell them? And maybe the best it ever got for them is a 'clown mass' by a clown of a priest. These poor victims of such a 'Catholicism' might even be better off, as it were, having found faith with the evangelicals. It's the much more cynical folks who teach them out and out lies mixed in with mere Christianity who get me. Then these former Catholics swallow it hook, line, and sinker and become the next generation of low information protesters against the faith.
 
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The approach to truth from a position of protest causes certain mental habits that obstruct most protestants ability to reason without bias in regards of truth presented by a Catholic. A kind of defensiveness about truth, a tendency for either-or thinking. One can say something obviously biblical like; "the world receives salvation through Mary" and get "blasphemy" as a response. This forum is better than most multidenominational? sites. In fact I just got banned from one I had been a member for years with the above statement. Banned for spreading catholic heresy. This forum is much more inclusive.
 
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I am new to ChristianForums...but not new internet forums. I'm old enough to remember when the Internet was "new" and just a fad that would soon pass.:ebil:

Anyway, been navigating around quite a bit lurking in numerous threads...and I must say that even cynical old me is surprised by the amount of anti-Catholicism: most, apparently due to misinformation as well as just good ol' fashioned ignorance...but some of it is just straight up animus. I know that this is a multi-denominational/non-denomination forum...so water off a duck's back and all. Everybody is entitled to their opinion.

At this point: I am deciding how I want to engage on this forum. I have a formal theological education I received while a seminarian...want to put it to good use in service of the Church.

My question to fellow Catholics (as well as Orthodox who may be reading this): how have you decided to participate in this massive forum?

JS: one post at a time. Glad to have you here. Jump in we can use all the help we can get.
 
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The approach to truth from a position of protest causes certain mental habits that obstruct most protestants ability to reason without bias in regards of truth presented by a Catholic. A kind of defensiveness about truth, a tendency for either-or thinking. One can say something obviously biblical like; "the world receives salvation through Mary" and get "blasphemy" as a response. This forum is better than most multidenominational? sites. In fact I just got banned from one I had been a member for years with the above statement. Banned for spreading catholic heresy. This forum is much more inclusive.
Christianchat? It really is an illinformed hotbed of hate against catholics. I was careful to challenge on biblical grounds. i didn’t get banned, I just left.
 
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Christianchat? It really is an illinformed hotbed of hate against catholics. I was careful to challenge on biblical grounds. i didn’t get banned, I just left.
That's the one. I enjoyed it when I could challenge the stereotypical views they hold to. Soften the edge so to speak.
 
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Some Catholics do not help your cause. The idea that the Catholic church is the only true church does not sit well with Protestants like myself. I know the reasoning but I just don't agree.

I make a distinction between the Catholic organisation and the people who identify as Catholic. I know Catholics who are born again and love Jesus. I know Pentecostals who are as hard as nails and show no love for the brethren.

We prove that we have passed from death to life when we love the brethren, not when we are in perfect theological alignment.
I would suggest you listen to Bishop Barron more. He'll tell you what your itching ears want to hear. Then you'll be happy.
 
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I would suggest you listen to Bishop Barron more. He'll tell you what your itching ears want to hear. Then you'll be happy.
I have no idea who he is. I've read, heard and seen enough to come a conclusion with respect to Catholicism.
 
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That's the one. I enjoyed it when I could challenge the stereotypical views they hold to. Soften the edge so to speak.
At one time robochat - owner? had an anti catholic rant as a pinned post on the read before post section.

I challenged almost every line of it.
I stopped short of the words like rosary that get you banned.
Turns out his mother? Was catholic and he attacked her beliefs.

Eg He attacked phrases like “ mother of god”, “ queen of heaven” “ intercession”

I pointed out that elizabeth was honoured that the “ mother of her lord” should come to her, so it is clearly biblical. That the mother ( not spouse) of davidic kings was called queen and Jesus was presented as a davidic king. Also Solomon “ bowed to her, said he would do what he asked” so intercession!

he attacked the idea that Mary had no other children , I pointed out that Mary, said “ how can this be, I have not known man” , which makes no sense since she was about to get married unless she intended to stay celibate, I pointed out that texts prove the Essenes were sonetimes celibate in marriage . So it wasn’t unknown.

I also pointed out in a few cases that his mothers beliefs ( or his interpretation wasn’t actually catholic !! And Catholicism cannot be blamed , just as he can’t be blamed for his followers that don’t follow instruction!

I waited to get banned, but He took the post down!

I then had a go at sola scriptura showing how it alone leads to all Protestant schisms..

I wasn’t popular. But left before I was kicked out!
 
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At one time robochat - owner! had an anti catholic rant as a pinned post on the read before post section.

I challenged almost every line of it.
I stopped short of the words like rosary that get you banned.
Turns out his mother? Was catholic and he attacked her beliefs.

Eg He attacked phrases like “ mother of god”, “ queen of heaven” “ intercession”

I pointed out that elizabeth was honoured that the “ mother of her lord” should come to her, so it is clearly biblical. That the mother ( not spouse) of davidic kings was called queen and Jesus was presented as a davidic king. Also Solomon “ bowed to her, said he would do what he asked” so intercession!

he attacked the idea that Mary had no other children , I pointed out that Mary, said “ how can this be, I have not known man” , which makes no sense since she was about to get married unless she intended to stay celibate, I pointed out that texts prove the Essenes were sonetimes celibate in marriage . So it wasn’t unknown.

I also pointed out in a few cases that his mothers beliefs ( or his interpretation wasn’t actually catholic !! And Catholicism cannot be blamed , just as he can’t be blamed for his followers that don’t follow instruction!

I waited to get banned, but He took the post down!

I then had a go at sola scriptura showing how it alone leads to all Protestant schisms..

I wasn’t popular. But left before I was kicked out!
Glad you are here. I hope we in OBOB can last out the year before wokism takes over.
 
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I actually understand Protestant ( and evangelical ) mindset. That was where I started, before a meandering journey to Rome.

One of the things I suggest to all Protestants is to listen to Marcus grodis journey home series which features one hour videos on the journeys of many ( must be thousands now) Protestants - featuring in the main both those in Protestant or evangelical clergy or theologians take back to Rome.

The chnetwork journey home sites allows search of every flavour, eg southern Baptist, Pentecostal, Presbyterian, episcopal etc. The videos explains their reasoning for questioning and ultimately rejecting both their own flavour of Protestant but also objections to Rome. Many were passionate anti catholics!

The important issue is Protestants can relate to those who came from their part of Protestantism, they know how they think, but then discover that much of their objection to Catholicism is myth, and answering questions like “ where is authorityto resolve disputes” leads to study of early church and meaning of such as bind and loose.
Anglicanism ( indeed such as Presbyterian) are now so divided because they have lost the means to resolve .

At very least you will find it informative.




Some Catholics do not help your cause. The idea that the Catholic church is the only true church does not sit well with Protestants like myself. I know the reasoning but I just don't agree.

I make a distinction between the Catholic organisation and the people who identify as Catholic. I know Catholics who are born again and love Jesus. I know Pentecostals who are as hard as nails and show no love for the brethren.

We prove that we have passed from death to life when we love the brethren, not when we are in perfect theological alignment.
 
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I actually understand Protestant ( and evangelical ) mindset. That was where I started, before a meandering journey to Rome.

Yup. Me, too (no pun intended). Once I had both: 1) the academic research from reputable scholars not bowed down in confessional politics/arguments; and 2) the personal courage to honestly assess my own belief system...I also meandered to Rome.
 
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The important issue is Protestants can relate to those who came from their part of Protestantism, they know how they think, but then discover that much of their objection to Catholicism is myth, and answering questions like “ where is authorityto resolve disputes” leads to study of early church and meaning of such as bind and loose.
Anglicanism ( indeed such as Presbyterian) are now so divided because they have lost the means to resolve .

Studying & researching the ancient & undivided Church at university is what led me to "swim the Tiber."
 
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I actually understand Protestant ( and evangelical ) mindset. That was where I started, before a meandering journey to Rome.

One of the things I suggest to all Protestants is to listen to Marcus grodis journey home series which features one hour videos on the journeys of many ( must be thousands now) Protestants - featuring in the main both those in Protestant or evangelical clergy or theologians take back to Rome.

The chnetwork journey home sites allows search of every flavour, eg southern Baptist, Pentecostal, Presbyterian, episcopal etc. The videos explains their reasoning for questioning and ultimately rejecting both their own flavour of Protestant but also objections to Rome. Many were passionate anti catholics!

The important issue is Protestants can relate to those who came from their part of Protestantism, they know how they think, but then discover that much of their objection to Catholicism is myth, and answering questions like “ where is authorityto resolve disputes” leads to study of early church and meaning of such as bind and loose.
Anglicanism ( indeed such as Presbyterian) are now so divided because they have lost the means to resolve .

At very least you will find it informative.
I can well understand why people reject protestantism. I refuse to be labelled anything but Christian. Many Protestant denominations have become stagnant and lifeless. However, I am unable to accept fundamental teachings of Catholicism. I do not accept that Peter was the first of a line of popes. I do not accept that a central organisation can control every church. I reject the concept of a priest standing in for Christ. How dare the "church" refuse to give the communion wine to a born again believer!

There are too many objections to mention. I had some dealings with the Catholic Charismatic movement in the 1970's. It was a blessed time in many ways, not least because the barriers were coming down. But the hierarchy put an end to it and the whole thing fizzled out.

The real lack of the Church generally, at least in the Western world, is spiritual life. Most Christians know that Lord Jesus is the Way and the Truth. Not so many know Him as The Life.

Each assembly should be independent. Disputes should be settled on the local level, as Paul advised the Corinthians. The Pope is not Moses and the Church is not Israel wandering through the wilderness.
 
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This is not a forum section you can criticise Catholic teaching.

On other matters study early church. As the first documents show, eucharist was not given to catechumens. They first had to appreciate it was the real body and blood. Also that it was only valid if presided by a bishop in succession. Read ignatiius to smyrneans: a disciple of John. So valid Eucharist can only be in the valid church that appoints apostolic successors - bishops. So speaks a disciple of John who clearly knew what the gospel of John means!

Since the first canons were rejected by the church at Rome , and the New Testament a product of the church you are on difficult ground to reject the Church physical. Indeed the bible says the “ pillar and foundation of truth is the CHURCH” “ the household of God” ie church physical

. Augustine lists the popes as authority against donatism, indeed acts refers to Peter an overwhelming number of times compared to others. The OT explains the role of “ keys of the kingdom” Jesus referred back to OT like this because he knew Jews of the day would look to OT for explanation. From abraham, moses etc, God appointed leaders in faith. It would be odd if he had not done the same AD, but he did! It is clear "do you love me" "tend my sheep" (said three times, to match Peters 3 denials)- Peter is appointed as leader/pastor . The keys demonstrates inheritable role. So Peter has primacy much as the other OT leaders.

The powers of pope and councils are given by Jesus to “ bind and loose” . The powers of a priest to “ forgive sins” or “ retain sins” is there , but clearly only God can do that , so clearly acts through priests and elsewhere the literal translation is “ forgive in the person of Christ”. Those verses are explicit forgiveness or retention. No other explanation satisfies.

so Catholicism is supported in scripture (so depends only on how you interpret those verses). The question then Is not of biblical support ,it is of authority to give definitive interpretation ( bind and loose) and hand down those meanings ( tradition). The bible answers both. Peter (and disciples acting together) the power to bind and loose.

Why do you suppose, Jesus left his church to disintegrate? In doctrinal terms it has not. In all essential ways it believes now what it did in the first century. Some explanation has evolved. The church as an acorn became an Oak. But the eucharist is the same as it has always been. Indeed the bible says "the gospel will be preached to the end of time". It doesnt mention a 1500 year gap the protestants suppose!

Protestants presume a power they don’t have to decide meaning of scripture. They have even mistranslated "tradition", which in reality means the faith handed down “paradosis”. It is not an addition to scripture. It explains scripture. Scripture has no definitive meaning without it. Scripture. Authority. Tradition are the three legs of a stool that falls over without any one of them.

All the Protestant divisions are the result of allowing all to adopt own meaning for scripture. But Only if you have the right meaning do you have the word of God. Without which all you have is words. Luther opened pandoras box with "sola scriptura" then lamented the monster he created saying "all the milkmaids now have their own doctrine". Thats the point. Luther didnt want to abolish the pope, he wanted to be pope. He used sola scriptura to get rid of the old pope, not realising the inevitable that it made all others pope over their own religions, and they stopped listening to him as well. We know this because even many Lutherans no longer believe what luther believed.

Even Calvin and Luther disagreed on many fundamentals. But they had lost the means to resolve them, so calvinists and lutherans went separate ways.


There is only one meaning of scripture. It was handed down by tradition. Such as iraneus ( against heresies) in the early church explain exactly what that entails.

here is not a place you can challenge catholic belief. I can only say you ARE a protestant, because you protest catholic belief, whether or not you are in one of the defined groups!

But its true, the spiritual outpourof emotion is not a normal part of catholic practice, but then what some find in outpouring, others find in quiet contemplation, or in gregorian chant.If it brings you closer to God, then it is good, however you do it! There are a lot of lukewarm box ticking catholics. They should not be!

I’ve suggested you listen to journey home. Discover the reasoning of hundreds of ministers and theologians came back to Rome as their arguments against Catholicism fell. You are free to make up your own mind.

The question on which it all resolves. If you think X, others think Y on a critical aspect of doctrine, where is authority to decide? Protestantism in all its forms has no means to resolve, so it fractures endlessly.


I can well understand why people reject protestantism. I refuse to be labelled anything but Christian. Many Protestant denominations have become stagnant and lifeless. However, I am unable to accept fundamental teachings of Catholicism. I do not accept that Peter was the first of a line of popes. I do not accept that a central organisation can control every church. I reject the concept of a priest standing in for Christ. How dare the "church" refuse to give the communion wine to a born again believer!

There are too many objections to mention. I had some dealings with the Catholic Charismatic movement in the 1970's. It was a blessed time in many ways, not least because the barriers were coming down. But the hierarchy put an end to it and the whole thing fizzled out.

The real lack of the Church generally, at least in the Western world, is spiritual life. Most Christians know that Lord Jesus is the Way and the Truth. Not so many know Him as The Life.

Each assembly should be independent. Disputes should be settled on the local level, as Paul advised the Corinthians. The Pope is not Moses and the Church is not Israel wandering through the wilderness.
 
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There are too many objections to mention.
THIS is NOT the place for you to mention even a one of them. You have THE WHOLE REST OF CF to go into any anti-Catholic diatribe you wish to go into. You can go in to every little 'objection' that you, as a protester to Catholic teaching, can imagine. But you are in OBOB with this discussion and you are trying to pontificate your position. Not cool. But you persist. I think you do it deliberately. As if I should go into the non-denominational denomination forum and tell them they are all wrong. Think anybody would object to that? Think I should have a right to do that? I'd never do that. But here you are. Maybe I SHOULD go over to the non-denominational denomination forum and tell them how objectionable their religion is. What think you?
 
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