Yes and no, as you guessed. And yes, I have changed my mind and decided they were correct about some thing. Likewise, I've changed my mind and decided they were wrong about other things.
So, whether or not God's intervention was sufficient is no reason to question his existence. I would say that what you are really questioning is whether his wisdom is as all-ecompassing as he claims. But even though you may question it, that is yet again not sufficient reason to say he is not God (or, for the analogy, that the parent is not the parent). As you stated earlier for the parent/child, the assumption is that the wisdom of the parent is more than the child. So, even if the child questions, the decision still defaults to the parent. There are going to be times when the child thinks he/she is correct and simply isn't.
We do not allow children to choose their parents. We do not let them say, "Well, my parents aren't doing what I think they should, so I'll switch parents." We don't let them say, "My parents are irrelevant, so I'll ignore them." For the majority of the cases in disputes between parent and child, the parent is the one making the right choice.
Now that I've answered, you can answer my questions.
So, my answer to question #1 is no - we are not allowed to set any standard for God. You are not thinking in terms of parent/child. For that case, in the majority of disputes, the parent makes the right decision. As that gulf widens ... i.e., as the wisdom of the parent becomes the wisdom of God, the probability that the authority is making the right decision becomes absolute.
I would propose that in offering your question, you are thinking in terms of a government that sits as judge above the parents. As a society, we hope to have a greater wisdom than a single individual (though that doesn't always happen). Regardless, as a society we reserve the right to hold parents accountable to a certain standard. But again, that means we are placing a government over the parent as judge. That can't be done with God.
I can only think of 2 possibilities:
1) The questioner is in the role of child and is expected to obey God
2) The questioner is in fact wiser, and should therefore take their role as god and supplant the lesser god.
Which brings us back to my question from post #66. You think God has not intervened enough. Because of my answer to question #2, I have no problem with you challenging that. But your response to the answer, I think, determines who you think you are. Do you see yourself in the role of the child who needs to accept parental authority, or do you see yourself as wiser than God?
(Edit: Another objection you started to raise was sort of a "free will is useless if God punishes us for all but the right choice" kind of thing. I guess I would say there is more than one acceptable choice. Suppose I need to get from point A to point B, but my car is out of gas. I could buy more gas, walk, ask a friend for a ride, take the bus, etc. There are multiple acceptable choices. There are also multiple bad choices. I could steal the gas, steal another car, hijack someone, etc. So, God's expectation that after we question we will obey does not render free will useless.)
I would say you are the first of the two possibilities I listed above. You will probably take some modified, qualified version of the second (since I don't believe God exists, yes, I think I am wiser than what people wrote in the Bible - or something like that). But we have already established that just because you think you are wiser is not sufficient reason to place yourself above the Bible. So, you'll need some other reason.
In the mean time, since we have looped back to that post #66 question. You answered:
I would say that he should be at least as good a parent as good human parents are. They go to extreme lengths to protect their kids to the best of their abilities. So, at least to the extent that a human parent does plus the extent that his abilities, knowledge, and wisdom endow him.
Is it really ability? Or is it ability qualified by principle? Was Abu Ghraib acceptable to protect the U.S. (let's assume it actually did afford the U.S. some protection)? According to the principles of some, though the U.S. had the ability, principles trumped those abilities. The same is true of the Patriot Act. Whether you agree with those specific examples or not, surely you see my point. Do you agree? Is it not, as opposed to what you said earlier, actually ability qualified by principle?
If not, then God is allowed any extreme to prevent what he says in the Bible is offensive to him.