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It's pretty weird. For the last three months, every time I have a fleeting thought about a person with whom I've not been in contact for some time (in some rare cases, years!) within a couple days, I hear from them, be it by phone, by e-mail, by letter, or in person!!! This is freaking me out.

A week ago I was thinking about some people I knew from Long Island who worked at the Starbucks, and for some reason I thought about this one guy who I knew moved into New York City, and on Sunday, I ran into him at a restaurant he works at!!!

So I asked him about one of the Starbucks workers who had AIDS. He was openly homosexual, a fallen-away Protestant, although his illness had led him to actually seek God again. Anyway, last I had seen him, he was gravely ill and then I ended up losing all contact with the "Starbucks crew" so I had no idea whatever happened to him.

So I asked the guy if he knew if the man with AIDS died, and he thought that indeed the guy had. This saddened me. About 7 months ago (it's been over 3 years since I've seen these people) I kept thinking about the guy with AIDS (he was such a kind, funny, genuinely nice person) and was praying fervently for him, if he were still alive. Hearing he may have died really bummed me out but it was to be expected.

Then, last night... the Lord gave me an answer. Turns out that my call to prayer 7 months ago was part of my "gift" (which manifested itself so strongly when I was in the friary) where the Holy Spirit delivers to me the prayer needs of people I know or even don't know and I lift those prayers back up to the Lord.

As many of you know, I am a fanatic about working out and go to the gym 6 times per week. My times at the gym are always interesting... either I get cruised by homosexual men (some very perverse, others are just very "nice" guys who happen to have good taste :p and want to get to know me), or have women ask for me to "spot them" and shove their cleavage in my face, or I have people come to me out of the woodwork to pray for them or to ask me spiritual guidance (God leads them to me because half the time I don't even know these people and how they know I am a servant of God can only be from the Spirit of God Himself!).

So last night this one guy could not stop checking me out while I was doing cardio (my "cross-training" during which I recite a Rosary). It was a bit obnoxious. And when he would talk to me it was obvious that he was interested in more than a few "work out tips" -- but I turn away no one, I look at it as if someone I don't know comes up to me like that, I know God has brought them to me for a reason, and I can be used as an instrument of God's will.

Anyway, kind as always, I withstood the compliments (this guy was not a jerk) and conversed politely, and discovered he knows the Starbucks guy with AIDS because they went to High School together! The guy is not dead; he had been on the verge of death for some time, until about seven months ago, he was released from the hospital, cured (not of AIDS) of his ailments!

No wonder I felt the tug to pray for Him.

So God had led this guy to work out in my gym last night (when normally he works out in another of the NY Sports Club gyms) so that I could have an answer to what had been on my mind: was this guy OK and alive.

Now that I know, and know that he's living in Delaware now, I'm going to look him up and tell him how much I've been praying for him... and maybe plant a few seeds.

I'm avoiding using names here, but keep these people in your prayers. And remember: God may unusual situations to reveal His Divine Will to unbelievers, and bring salvation and hope to them!!! Stay alert, pray always, and follow the Holy Spirit's guiding hand!!!

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TIM
 

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It's such a white-collar, preppy gym in midtown and yet, it's terrible that way. But actually it goes on everywhere. But I'm there to work out and to pray. And I'm always smiling and happy so I don't let it phase me.

I told this story once before I think, but one time this guy at the gym last year started cruising me while I was working out, so I cut him off right away saying, "I'm sorry, you're not my type. I'm already madly in love with this Jewish guy who's got long hair, is in really good shape and has his hands, feet and side pierced."
 
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It's pretty weird. For the last three months, every time I have a fleeting thought about a person with whom I've not been in contact for some time (in some rare cases, years!) within a couple days, I hear from them, be it by phone, by e-mail, by letter, or in person!!! This is freaking me out.

That happens to me often as well, do you really think it's a gift?
 
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Bastoune said:
It's such a white-collar, preppy gym in midtown and yet, it's terrible that way. But actually it goes on everywhere. But I'm there to work out and to pray. And I'm always smiling and happy so I don't let it phase me.

I told this story once before I think, but one time this guy at the gym last year started cruising me while I was working out, so I cut him off right away saying, "I'm sorry, you're not my type. I'm already madly in love with this Jewish guy who's got long hair, is in really good shape and has his hands, feet and side pierced."

I must not be pretty...I have never been hit on, at a gym, or elsewhere...by men, that is. I have had my share of temptation by women from time to time.
 
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Shelb5 said:
That happens to me often as well, do you really think it's a gift?

I thought about Jeff the other night, and the next day he IM'd me...we had never talked before...and we set up this thing between our sites for apologetics...coincidence...or not....hmmmm.
 
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Shelb5 said:
That happens to me often as well, do you really think it's a gift?
I don't really think it's a gift, so much as maybe a strange way God is working in us. But when I would pray in the friary before the Blessed Sacrament each evening, the Holy Spirit would bring the prayer needs of people to my mind and heart (I had no contact with them but wanted to pray for them and as I did, He would call to mind specific needs) so I would lift those up to God. Sort of like a circular thing going on between me and God...
 
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Bastoune said:
I don't really think it's a gift, so much as maybe a strange way God is working in us. But when I would pray in the friary before the Blessed Sacrament each evening, the Holy Spirit would bring the prayer needs of people to my mind and heart (I had no contact with them but wanted to pray for them and as I did, He would call to mind specific needs) so I would lift those up to God. Sort of like a circular thing going on between me and God...

That is what I have concluded too. I would be reminded of someone I had not had contact with in a long while and I would think that they are in need of prayers, that, this is what God was telling me.
 
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Hey I hit on him all the time
He keeps turning me down though something about me being married and then that pesky thing of him wanting to become a Priest. Just road blocks but hey..... LOL
He is too good looking for his own good.... He is going to be the best looking Priest out there...
Sorry Tim you know I had to do that.
And yes I know I am going to hear about it later too.
Thank the Heavens above for the fact that we can see everyday how are prayers get answered.
Love
Debs
 
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You're fans are waiting Tim!

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DoF, you are EVIL!!!!!!!:mad:

OK, here are some pics I put on CF (not the only ones):

http://www.christianforum.com/t47705

Now, enough of this nonsense!!! I have a MILLION stories I could tell, including these drunk women during Lent that I met in a bar with my roommate who could not believe I was able to "give up alcohol" (too hard for them to resist, you know) or some other tales like how this one guy I know and who has become a great friend (all because I found his crucifix in the locker room) but he's gay and jokingly flirts all the time and has said dumb things like "I am praying again to God... praying that you'll go out with me" -- or then there's the girl downstairs from me who invited me over for dinner when I left the Capuchins (since she saw me in a tank top and shorts when I answered my door when she asked for some "Cajun spices") and told me "You're way too f-ing hot to be a priest. If I had a priest like you, I'd go to church every week"...

But pray for tonight. The one guy from last night said he'll be back, "and maybe we can go out for coffee afterwards." I probably will. Then we can talk about "JEEEEEEEEEESUS!!!" :D

I mean, I am too nice to be mean to someone who seemingly has a heart of gold. But it will become OBVIOUS that I'm not gay, and not interested.
 
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