My wife has been talking to another man

[SeventhFisherofMen]

My wife has been talking to another man who has been flirting with her. She claims it's because she is getting something from it that I don't give her. She wants to include other people and do things intimately that I don't feel God wants and I don't know what to do. She hasn't committed adultery with me yet but it's a ticking time bomb. She won't tell me who it is or that she will stop talking to him. The only solution to separate is if they have already committed adultery. I have to fall asleep next to this person and live with them until i find a solution. Please anyone give me guidance

 

[SeventhFisherofMen]

@Mark Quayle it's complicated but we've decided to separate. She wants an open marriage and i cannot support that as a Christian man

 

[look4hope]

@Mark Quayle it's complicated but we've decided to separate. She wants an open marriage and i cannot support that as a Christian man

I am very sorry to hear you have been put in this predicament. One can love, advice, Guide, protect, and be patient with our spouse....no doubt. However, the choices your wife is giving you aren’t choices you obviously and absolutely are comfortable with nor agree with. You can stay loyal and love her and pray for her but do not be fooled into caving in if it is NOT what you want.

I am hoping your wife comes to a realization of how much she’s hurting you.

Hold on tight on faith, and know eventually things turn to the better regardless the outcome.

Blessings sir!
L4H

 

[SeventhFisherofMen]

I am very sorry to hear you have been put in this predicament. One can love, advice, Guide, protect, and be patient with our spouse....no doubt. However, the choices your wife is giving you aren’t choices you obviously and absolutely are comfortable with nor agree with. You can stay loyal and love her and pray for her but do not be fooled into caving in if it is NOT what you want.

I am hoping your wife comes to a realization of how much she’s hurting you.

Hold on tight on faith, and know eventually things turn to the better regardless the outcome.

Blessings sir!
L4H

She's decided to divorce me, but I am still fighting in prayer that she stay with me. I'm holding on with every ounce of spiritual strength I have and praying that Jesus actually do something about this