My weight

[Pentecostal Boy]

Hi, i'm Tyler I am 14 years old almost 6 foot tall and I way a lil bit over 200 pounds . I mean I am not MONSTEROUSLY FAT. I hate to say it but I hate myslef... I wanna be like everyone else. Normal and not fat... I mean I know yall cant help me without my own determination. so... can I hav helo?

God Bless,

-Tyler

 

[Rosebaronet]

Hi, Tyler, weight can be changed, it can be modified, you will probably grow out of baby fat in 6 years time, just keep on talking to the Lord.

Normality isn't necessarily a good thing, people should embrace their uniqueness.

God bless

 

[Pentecostal Boy]

Althought "uniqueness" might sound good try to be unique and a teenager... It's not the funnest task on earth...

 

[Rosebaronet]

Oh I know, lol I have been cerebral palsy all my life, and never had a girlfriend as a teenager. I am still alone, by the way. But there is a God and He loves us, have faith in Him will make us proud of our uniqueness, because He loves his creations.

 

[CFpetRESCUER1]

It's okay Tyler. You will grow out of it just as Rosebaronet said. Don't hate yourself, Ty.

 

[TheSerenityPrayer]

Althought "uniqueness" might sound good try to be unique and a teenager... It's not the funnest task on earth...

I may not be a guy, but I was there not that long ago. Im 21 now. I wasnt known as the "fat gurl' or anything, but I didnt like being overweight any either. I lost quite a few pounds in high school about 25ish. Walking to and from school everyday with a heavy backpack and hardly eating (healthy). It didnt change a THING. So you see, whether or not you think being "normal" as everyone else is your answer, it really isnt. Being yourself is the answer. You have to learn to love yourself as you are. All you see is the fat, but there is soo much more. If you dont believe me, well challenge God. Tell Him you dont like where you are physcially, ask HIM to help you get your determation up. If you look to man, well we are bound to falter. We love you through our Savoir, even though we dont know you. Jesus is all knowing. He is waiting for you to bring all of your worries to Him and lay them at His cross. Be Blessed brother. Take my advice, try it out.

In Christs love,
Serenity

 

[Lenora56]

Hi Tyler,
Do you live where you can walk and/or run on a regular basis? With your parents' permission of course. Sometimes, it's just getting on the right momentum. That's what I'm struggling to do right now, get on the proper momentum. You do not look heavy at all in your picture. If you're almost 6' at 14, you're probably going to be a tall, fairly large-built man, and that's ok.