My Teacher's Husband

[Roxie]

I have met a man of my dream and we have spent lot of time together.
Lately I found out, that he is married and his wife is my teacher of history.
She knows nothing yet.
I do not know what to do...

 

[The Bellman]

I have met a man of my dream and we have spent lot of time together.
Lately I found out, that he is married and his wife is my teacher of history.
She knows nothing yet.
I do not know what to do...

Stop seeing him immediately, have nothing further to do with him.

Oh, and grow up.

 

[GMRELIC]

I have met a man of my dream and we have spent lot of time together.
Lately I found out, that he is married and his wife is my teacher of history.
She knows nothing yet.
I do not know what to do...

If you keep persuing this, the man of your dreams is going to become the man of your nightmares, you need to stop it NOW. what good can ever come of it. even if he left his wife for you, which probably would never happen, what makes you think he would treat you any differently than he does his wife. You need to find your own man and leave someone elses alone.

 

[Emmy]

Dear Roxie,Take GMRELIC`s advice and leave the said gentleman alone.If he kept his wife a secret from you,or did not think of mentioning his wife to you,you can be sure that he will do the same across you.This is not judging,it is common sense.PS If you are doing nothing about this,the day will surly come when you will be hurt.Kind greetings Emmy.

 

[seebs]

I have met a man of my dream and we have spent lot of time together.
Lately I found out, that he is married and his wife is my teacher of history.
She knows nothing yet.
I do not know what to do...

Go looking for someone else.

 

[Mr. Fields]

Naaah! Don't listen to the rest of these posters!!!

Spend all your time with him, sneaking around behind his wife's back. Make sure you give him all the sex he wants. Listen to him tell you how much he loves you and is willing to leave his wife to spend the rest of his life with you. Let him string you along for months, all the while wondering why he hasn't left his wife yet. Finally, let him get you pregnant or have his wife find out and see how fast he leaves you, heartbroken and alone, wondering what went wrong...

Absolutely the best way to deal with this situation. And I guarantee that's how the story will go...

 

[BarbB]

Dear Roxie,Take GMRELIC`s advice and leave the said gentleman alone.If he kept his wife a secret from you,or did not think of mentioning his wife to you,you can be sure that he will do the same across you.This is not judging,it is common sense.PS If you are doing nothing about this,the day will surly come when you will be hurt.Kind greetings Emmy.

Emmy - you are toooooo nice. You called this skunk a gentleman!

Roxie - As a Christian you know that you should have NOTHING to do with a married man, don't you? Not to mention that if his wife finds out about you, she probably will fail you! Tell him to leave you alone and if he doesn't then report him or tell your parents! God bless you and keep you!

 

[bliz]

If he is alrady married, he is not the man of your dreams.

You have already established that this guy is willing to cheat on his wife... why on earth do you think he won't do that to you someday?

You got involved with him and *then* learned he was married? What else hasn't he told you and/or what has he deceived you about? Children? Other girlfriends? STDs?

Nothing but heartache lies ahead for you if you continue to see him. Do something really nice for yourself, and walk away.

 

[BarbB]

Remember how shocked everyone was when Tom Cruise walked away from his 10 year marriage to Nicole Kidman and children to shack up with Penelope Cruz? Didn't you realize that he had left his first wife for an affair with Nicole? His history will repeat itself until he is a lonely old man with a trail of broken hearted wives in his past!

 

[Avatar]

Wow. You all continue to impress me. I'm very new here. I've read a number of threads thinking that I'd be reading the posts of people fanatically calling down hellfire on sinners. Instead I see reasoned, compassionate and, quite frankly, wise answers to peoples questions and problems. I'm genuinely impressed with this Christian community. (I call myself a Deistic Pantheist myself(and there's only 2 of us !lol), which is someone who believes God created the universe and became the universe and is not, at the moment, watching over it. this explains, for me, how so much tragedy can occur.) Again, I see a lot of wisdom here without resorting to dogma. You are good people and I'm glad to be here!

 

[KelliP72]

I learned this the hard way. Don't do it.

 

[Roxie]

I learned this the hard way. Don't do it.

Dear KelliP72,
Could you tell me your story ?
Is it exactly the same as mine ?

 

[BarbB]

Roxie, I will tell you mine which is not exactly the same as yours, but close. I dated a married man for 3 years; his life was miserable with his wife (oh, poor guy). When I finally had enough and broke it off, his OTHER girlfriend had a baby a few months later!! Boy, was I relieved that I had not semi-permanently hooked up with him. He finally did leave his wife for this other girl. What a joke!

Now that you know that your boyfriend is married, as a Christian you MUST leave him. Please!!!!!!