I'm 16. I have a beautiful girlfriend. I also love God, he's the foundation of my life. However, I have partaken in oral sex (both ways) with my girlfriend. Now, she's an atheist, but as it's a highschool relationship, I saw it as only that. However, her sexual values differ from mine, and I know she desires to go all the way. I'm not sure how I will resist this...while I am no longer truly "pure", I want to save myself for marriage....but I don't know how I will resist my hormones, and I'm wondering how God currently looks upon for my sexual activity, and that i'm dating an Atheist. It does worry me. Any advice would be nice..
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My relationship with God and my girlfriend
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She isn't athiest, she believes in god but doesn't know which God to believe in. at least it seems that way, She doesn't tell me her beliefs though and I feel she may be pagan or something and hiding it from me v.v
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You probably should stop dating her. Your relationship is just setting you up for temptation. Whenever you enter into a relationship without a prospect for marriage all you can do is tear off pieces of your heart in an inevitable breakup. Since your wondering God offers full forgiveness and looks upon you as his child no matter how many times you mess up. So I'd suggest that you stop dating untill you find a girl that you will actually date with the intent of marrying, that way you can save the most of yourself for your future wife.
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a) 16 and serious dating is an open highway for early sex. That means:
b) Break the relationship. It has no long term future. Your broken heart will mend. And you can maintain your moral standards.
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a) 16 and serious dating is an open highway for early sex. That means:
b) Break the relationship. It has no long term future. Your broken heart will mend. And you can maintain your moral standards.
John
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You are in a complex situation. Considering marriage with an unbeliever is going against God. You will not have the blessing of God in your marriage if you get married to an athiest. The Bible says in 2 Cor 6:14 - "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
Marriage is a decision that will have long lasting effects. Please pray and commit your life to God right away. Matthew 7:14 says "But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." I hope you do not make wrong decisions in your life, this could impact your eternal destiny. God has a plan for your life. The greatest thing to accomplish in this world is to fulfill the plan that Father God has for you.
Marriage is a decision that will have long lasting effects. Please pray and commit your life to God right away. Matthew 7:14 says "But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." I hope you do not make wrong decisions in your life, this could impact your eternal destiny. God has a plan for your life. The greatest thing to accomplish in this world is to fulfill the plan that Father God has for you.
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