I'm planning to leave my husband. He avoids my 16-year-old son (from my previous marriage), and uses excuses like, "he disrespects me" because my son doesn't always "pick up after himself", and "runs up or down the stairs". This is causing much hurt for my son, who's real dad has walked away. My husband USED to talk to my son. BUT HIS two teenage daughters (from his previous marriage) have stolen from me, say and do rude things to me and my son, and they want us gone as well--they've said it. They have threatened to leave if my son doesn't, just because they don't like him. I think that is mostly why my husband avoids my son. My son avoids them because they hate him. My husband is such an avoider of difficult issues, and he is at the center of this all. We have had soooooo many arguments about this, and he just won't work to change these things. My husband has turned out to be far from the man I thought he was. I don't think he's the man that I waited over a decade to remarry.
I can't seem to find it in myself to try to make a marriage work with a man like him. My son has begged me to get us out of here. I honor marriage, but this is just all so wrong!!! We need to find an affordable, decent home. Thank you so much for your prayers!!
I can't seem to find it in myself to try to make a marriage work with a man like him. My son has begged me to get us out of here. I honor marriage, but this is just all so wrong!!! We need to find an affordable, decent home. Thank you so much for your prayers!!
