My husband calls in sick a lot. He never goes in late or leaves early. If he has a doctor appointment he just takes a day off. He has the time, but if he has 8 hours of sick or vacation accumulated, I know its coming. I just don't get it. My work ethic doesn't allow me to do that. I had like 200+ sick hours and my daughter got sick and I used every bit of it. BUT I was thankful I had it. Now I've been saving sick back to try and accrue 40 hours in case me or my son get the flu. I have 100 vacation hours. I take 2 weeks a year.
We've only been married a year. The plan is I'm going to take vacation without him because I can't imagine him having the time when we need it.
I'm not afraid of him cheating. He is at home. He used to own his own business that didn't do well and he is not used to working 40 hours a week. It is just mind blowing to me. I guess I just need to let him be himself. NOt everyone is like me and that's ok. right?
We've only been married a year. The plan is I'm going to take vacation without him because I can't imagine him having the time when we need it.
I'm not afraid of him cheating. He is at home. He used to own his own business that didn't do well and he is not used to working 40 hours a week. It is just mind blowing to me. I guess I just need to let him be himself. NOt everyone is like me and that's ok. right?