I'm having such problems right now. Financially, we are in dire straits. Possibly getting evicted this week, if we can't come up with the rent. My hubby's boss hasn't been providing enough work, and it's just put us in a bad way.
To top that off, me and the hubby got into a horrible fight. I mean, bad. I suggested that we sell some of our stuff...T.V., computer, fish tank...to make some money. Apparently he thought it was a stupid idea, and let me know. I tried to explain why, and then he started to get loud with me and tell me he get's angered by my "stupidity." We just had a talk about our arguing...in particular about my continuing on with something, and with his anger in front of the children. I bring that up, and he angers that it's my stupidity that makes him raise his voice and I need to shut up. I'm not raising my voice, and I'm telling him he doesn't need to talk to me like that I'm just trying to suggest a way so we can make it. The arguement escalates, and it ends with him threatening me physical harm. I say I'm leaving and tell the kids to get there coats on and he comes at me in front of them, threatening me infront of the kids saying I have to leave and I'm not taking them. I refuse to go anywhere without them.
The kids go in the other room, I go a separate way from him and he does the same. I go to my son's room and he is crying, saying he does not want to be with just a dad and no mom, or with no dad and just a mom. He says if we are apart we are not a family.
My heart is breaking at all this. I tell him to not cry, he does not have to choose between us, we both love him. Than H comes in again yelling at me for "telling lies" to the kids, and being like his mom who used the kids against his dad. I was everything but a woman today, it was all my fault for not shutting up when he said to. Than he tells my kids to get their shoes on because they are leaving with me, than he switches it up and says he'll leave us all. My son is just crying, my girls are just retreating, and I'm telling him he's wrong. He says I got him upset by involving the kids and trying to take them from him, and I told him I planned on going away for a bit so he could cook off. And I tell him if he loves them, than why does he treat their mother the way he does??
It's a nightmare. I am just feeling so humiliated, pained, and sickened. I feel horrible that the kids have to witness this. And he apologized later, but I just don't know....I love this man, I truly do...but...I have never been so hurt by him than to have him threaten me in front of our children.
To top that off, me and the hubby got into a horrible fight. I mean, bad. I suggested that we sell some of our stuff...T.V., computer, fish tank...to make some money. Apparently he thought it was a stupid idea, and let me know. I tried to explain why, and then he started to get loud with me and tell me he get's angered by my "stupidity." We just had a talk about our arguing...in particular about my continuing on with something, and with his anger in front of the children. I bring that up, and he angers that it's my stupidity that makes him raise his voice and I need to shut up. I'm not raising my voice, and I'm telling him he doesn't need to talk to me like that I'm just trying to suggest a way so we can make it. The arguement escalates, and it ends with him threatening me physical harm. I say I'm leaving and tell the kids to get there coats on and he comes at me in front of them, threatening me infront of the kids saying I have to leave and I'm not taking them. I refuse to go anywhere without them.
The kids go in the other room, I go a separate way from him and he does the same. I go to my son's room and he is crying, saying he does not want to be with just a dad and no mom, or with no dad and just a mom. He says if we are apart we are not a family.
My heart is breaking at all this. I tell him to not cry, he does not have to choose between us, we both love him. Than H comes in again yelling at me for "telling lies" to the kids, and being like his mom who used the kids against his dad. I was everything but a woman today, it was all my fault for not shutting up when he said to. Than he tells my kids to get their shoes on because they are leaving with me, than he switches it up and says he'll leave us all. My son is just crying, my girls are just retreating, and I'm telling him he's wrong. He says I got him upset by involving the kids and trying to take them from him, and I told him I planned on going away for a bit so he could cook off. And I tell him if he loves them, than why does he treat their mother the way he does?? It's a nightmare. I am just feeling so humiliated, pained, and sickened. I feel horrible that the kids have to witness this. And he apologized later, but I just don't know....I love this man, I truly do...but...I have never been so hurt by him than to have him threaten me in front of our children.
