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I started dating my girl in May. She became pregnant in June and had an abortion in late July. Before the pregnancy she told me that she was falling in love with me. She now tells me that she doesn't want to see me anymore because everytime she looks at me she sees the pain and regret caused by the abortion. she had the abortion for a number of reasons: not married, didn't know me long enough, going back to school, focused on work.

I really love this girl and want to have a long future with her. What should I do?
 
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I started dating my girl in May. She became pregnant in June and had an abortion in late July. Before the pregnancy she told me that she was falling in love with me. She now tells me that she doesn't want to see me anymore because everytime she looks at me she sees the pain and regret caused by the abortion. she had the abortion for a number of reasons: not married, didn't know me long enough, going back to school, focused on work.

I really love this girl and want to have a long future with her. What should I do?

It is not only your fault, she did wrong, too , gives time for her and find good christian counselor or a female pastor for her. She needs education to learn from this, too.
And u back up for a while, keep an eye on this, just praying keep praying.

i would have to second what restore said and just say, "pray" as well. spend alot of time alone with the Lord and wait for His leading. He will show you what to do; when you need to do it.

Father: Please be with hoffmarp right now. Lead him and guide him in the way he should go. Give him peace; let him release this situation fully onto You and allow You to do the work and healing that needs to be done here.

In Jesus Name,
Amen
 
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