My Friend

[GodsoldierClintus]

Had been sexually assaulted at work by a guy. Basically there isn't enough evidence, no prosecution possible.

The other day we were sitting together with our Christian group on campus and she got very awkward, got up and walked off, as if she was looking for something, and came back.

What can I do as a friend. I realise that she probably has a lot of difficulty trusting guys.

If it helps at all I'm really short and smaller then most girls, probably the same size as her so she may feel less intimidated

 

[saraharms1]

I may not have the best advice to give but I've had friends who were sexually abused and family members as well. Your friend is probably feeling a lot of things right now. They are gonna be scared for one thing, another thing is they probably feel worthless. I know that seemed to be a consistant thing with all my friends and family. They felt like they didn't deserve to be treated with respect and care.

So my advice to you. Surround her with love and care and gentleness. Be a good friend. Also... offer your ear to listen when she feels ready to talk to you about it all. Basically just be there for her. Love and support is the only thing you really can give her right now.



Sarah

 

[DocThomas]

Encourage your friend to seek a counselor. Be patient and open with her. Do not force her to do anything she does not really want to do. That will only make the situation worse.

God Bless.

 

[madison1101]

She should still contact the police and have them investigate. They can often find evidence that we take for granted. They can also direct her to help concerning victims assistance and rape counseling. She is going to need professional help for dealing with all of the emotions that go with being victimized sexually.

 

[bubblefish]

I agree with what has been said.
Just be there for her as a friend. Let her know that you won't push her to talk, but that you are always there if she needs a shoulder to cry on or someone to listen. Also, if possible, try to get her to seek professional help but don't push her too hard if she does not want to do it. It would take time for her to trust people again

 

[shazabella]

Hey Clint,

I've been there - if you want to talk PM me

- Shaz