My dad has problems again

[Lady Bug]

All he needs to do is look up what happened to your father. These things happen. He (brother) sounds like a complete drama addict.

This is the result of people who do not believe that this world is fallen from Adam and Eve. They deny that actual human suffering can exist without some sort of grand conspiracy.

 

[Michie]

This is the result of people who do not believe that this world is fallen from Adam and Eve. They deny that actual human suffering can exist without some sort of grand conspiracy.

I have a real issue with people constantly digging for drama in every situation. I get the uncontrollable urge to throttle them.

 

[Lady Bug]

I have a real issue with people constantly digging for drama in every situation. I get the uncontrollable urge to throttle them.

I want to throttle the phone-callers too. Seriously. I'm about to yell (not at you).

IT'S NO WONDER THAT, WHEN SOME PEOPLE DIE OR FALL ILL, THAT PEOPLE SAY "THE FAMILY IS NOT ACCEPTING PHONE CALLS AT THIS TIME." OF COURSE NOW I TOTALLY GET IT! GOSH DARN IT, PEOPLE NEED TO STOP CALLING ME! THE ONLY PEOPLE I CAN ACCEPT (AND EVEN THAT IS ANNOYING) ARE MY BROTHER (PUKE, BUT OH WELL), THE DOCTORS, NURSES, A PRIEST, AND MAYBE A COUPLE LADIES FROM CHURCH. EVERYONE ELSE NEEDS TO GO STRAIGHT TO YOU-KNOW-WHERE. DAMIT! I AM NOT ACCEPTING MOST PHONE CALLS AND MOST VISITORS TO MY HOME UNLESS DIRECTLY RELATED TO THE SITUATION!

 

[chevyontheriver]

Here is an example of my brother.

It turns out that my dad may not necessarily be allergic to morphine. According to the medical records, the seizure happened as my dad was weaning off the anesthesia. My brother doesn't believe that my dad actually had a seizure and that the hospital is making it up. I had told the doctors "no narcotics" because he had a problem with codeine 30 years back. Unfortunately, just because he's allergic to codeine (there were other meds listed under Allergies) doesn't mean per se that he's allergic to such-and-such. But my brother will try to tell me that the hospital is trying to manipulate me into believing such-and-such. Even if they ARE, I just don't have the proof as to what is causing my dad's debilitating condition right now aside from what is stated in the records. My brother acts like I have too much faith in the hospital staff. That's not it. They could be azzholes for all I know, but how am I supposed to prove anything? I don't know jack about some of the meds my dad is being temporarily given right now. My brother thinks I'm being too meek and not fighting them enough. I don't know what's wrong with being meek and not combative. It doesn't mean I'm gullible, it's that I don't want to cause a fuss when I don't know all I need to know. He's a mental case.

My wife reacts badly to opioids. It’s not all that uncommon. Also not uncommon are pretentious would be medical experts presuming the doctors are out to get you.

 

[Lady Bug]

My wife reacts badly to opioids. It’s not all that uncommon. Also not uncommon are pretentious would be medical experts presuming the doctors are out to get you.

I think my dad is on synthetic opioids now, not real ones. The medical records do indicate some opioids that my dad should not be taking.