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My Beliefs in Question!

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Woah. Now I have to ask for forgiveness? I was under the impression that as long as I accept him as my savior, I'm in the clear. If I believe in him, and believe he is righteous and just, and believe that he died for my sins and thank him for it, I should be fine. Where does it say I have to ask for forgiveness?

Acts 2:38
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38)Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Repenting is not only asking for forgiveness of your sins but when one is truly sorry for a wrong action one will change their sinful direction. Genuine regret will facilitate a move towards Godly direction.
 
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I've lived by a certain quote my entire life, and I was recently told by a Christian that it was evil, and wrong. Can someone tell me why?

"Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone but will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones."

Marcus Aurelius
What is a good life? Is there some objective, authoritative standard to which you can point as a basis for your definition of "good"? Or do you decide for yourself what is good? If you just decide for yourself what you think "good" is, how do you know you're correct?

How does Marcus Aurelius know what the gods will or will not care about? What if what you call a virtue the gods call evil?

What is an unjust god in MA's view? Does he mean a god who doesn't agree with him, who doesn't see good and bad, virtue and evil, exactly as he does?

What's a "noble life," exactly? What if what I call "noble" differs from what MA calls noble? Whose view of noble is right? Can any definition of noble do, or only MA's?

Your quotation leaves much to be desired as a standard by which to live your life. It sounds good at first reading, but ends up, upon thoughtful consideration, producing more questions than answers.

Selah.
 
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Do we even know anything of God before he 'created the world' how do we know he didn't just stumble upon the world at the right time and start screwing with people because he knew a few magic tricks. Or do we believe that God is perfect and absolutely holy, simple because he says that he is? It is your job as the Christian to prove to me that thbere is a god. Not the other way around. You can't prove that Jesus was those things he said he was, in the same way I can't prove he wasn't. The fact that I lack the evidence to prove you wrong does not automatically prove you right.

No, it is not. It is our job to witness to the truth.

God does the convincing
 
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Acts 2:38
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38)Peter replied, “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.

Repenting is not only asking for forgiveness of your sins but when one is truly sorry for a wrong action one will change their sinful direction. Genuine regret will facilitate a move towards Godly direction.

Or to be all king Jimmy about it: godly sorrow worketh repentance :thumbsup:

Good stuff!
 
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What is a good life? Is there some objective, authoritative standard to which you can point as a basis for your definition of "good"? Or do you decide for yourself what is good? If you just decide for yourself what you think "good" is, how do you know you're correct?

How does Marcus Aurelius know what the gods will or will not care about? What if what you call a virtue the gods call evil?

What is an unjust god in MA's view? Does he mean a god who doesn't agree with him, who doesn't see good and bad, virtue and evil, exactly as he does?

What's a "noble life," exactly? What if what I call "noble" differs from what MA calls noble? Whose view of noble is right? Can any definition of noble do, or only MA's?

Your quotation leaves much to be desired as a standard by which to live your life. It sounds good at first reading, but ends up, upon thoughtful consideration, producing more questions than answers.

Selah.

In response I say, I've found many more questions in my pursuance of biblical knowledge than I have in a quote that, when taken at face value, is nothing but a virtue of goodness and righteousness. I could also respond by drawing similarities between my faith in that quote, and your faith in the Bible. They both raise more questions than they answer, unless taken at face value, and lived by with faith.

I think the universal standard of a 'good' life could be defined as one lived solely on the principles of the betterment of mankind. The wholehearted sacrifice for your fellow man. To live a 'good' life by these standards would leave any sane man wholly satisfied that he had done 'right' by any benevolent force, including the aforementioned 'gods'.

What do you think is 'good'? Following God's law, even if it hurts people you care about, or people in general? If your God wishes harm on anyone, then I would see it fit to define that God as an unjust God.

And the very point of this quote is that Marcus Aurelius does, in fact, NOT know what the God's want. He merely knows that if all of mankind lived by this virtue, the world would be a place of peace and content, regardless of the wants and needs of any Gods or outside forces.

I think that you're misunderstanding the quote entirely. It's a quote stating that we should not concern ourselves with the wants of Gods or the Almighty, but rather live out our lives making the world a better place for those around us.

When viewed in this way, I think that it leaves no questions, and simply answers many I've had my whole life. I dare you to say that, when explained in this manner, there is any malcontent contained in this quote.
 
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No, it is not. It is our job to witness to the truth.

God does the convincing

Let me rephrase that. I was stating that, at least in this situation, Christianity is the missionary religion, and as such has the responsibility of teaching me the truths contained in their doctrine. Not that it was your responsibility as a religion, told by God, to convince people like me. I was on a phone and absolutely exhausted when I typed that post, to be honest. It was pretty impossible to get through.
 
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Let me rephrase that. I was stating that, at least in this situation, Christianity is the missionary religion, and as such has the responsibility of teaching me the truths contained in their doctrine. Not that it was your responsibility as a religion, told by God, to convince people like me. I was on a phone and absolutely exhausted when I typed that post, to be honest. It was pretty impossible to get through.

:thumbsup:

I agree, if we are to teach anything at all, it is to be true, and pure. I also point out that the bible is very explicit that a teacher has greater responsibility, which carries with it the ominous undertone of heavier judgment.

That being said, I am not afraid, nor ashamed. I know Him in whom I have believed! Even so, acting like some street preacher, spouting whatever comes to mind, does not seem wise. What is your interest? Do you have specific questions? (And what is the airspeed of an unladened swallow?)
 
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Marcus Aurelius was a Roman. As a Roman he would worship his gods, including emperor worship, would be highly superstitious never really knowing what fate the gods might have in store for him, he accepted slavery without question, believed in male superiority and a very limited role for women in society, and probably regarded compassion and mercy as signs of moral weakness. It may have been a good life for him and those with equivalent rank and status, but for his views on society as a whole.... Not what you or I would see as the good life. In ancient times that was only available to the aristocracy.

It was the message of Jesus that transformed society so we live in a culture that gives so many freedoms and has so many humanitarian values.

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I agree, if we are to teach anything at all, it is to be true, and pure. I also point out that the bible is very explicit that a teacher has greater responsibility, which carries with it the ominous undertone of heavier judgment.

That being said, I am not afraid, nor ashamed. I know Him in whom I have believed! Even so, acting like some street preacher, spouting whatever comes to mind, does not seem wise. What is your interest? Do you have specific questions? (And what is the airspeed of an unladened swallow?)

What? An African or a European swallow? :D

I'm mostly just pondering and debating right now, testing and learning in that manner, though if anything comes to mind specifically, I'll let you know! Thank you.
 
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Marcus Aurelius was a Roman. As a Roman he would worship his gods, including emperor worship, would be highly superstitious never really knowing what fate the gods might have in store for him, he accepted slavery without question, believed in male superiority and a very limited role for women in society, and probably regarded compassion and mercy as signs of moral weakness. It may have been a good life for him and those with equivalent rank and status, but for his views on society as a whole.... Not what you or I would see as the good life. In ancient times that was only available to the aristocracy.

It was the message of Jesus that transformed society so we live in a culture that gives so many freedoms and has so many humanitarian values.

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I beg to differ. I don't think you can attribute the all of the changes and liberties awarded to western culture over the last few thousand years simply to Christian teachings.

On another note, you speak in the absolutes that are in most cases absent from religious debate by a defensive Christian. I can see why, because in this case, it's not your faith that's under attack, but rather mine. Let's look at what we've said here.

The quote, based on the living of a 'good' life.

Then my explanation of the quote.

Then your explanation of what it probably meant to Marcus Aurelius.

Now put those three things together, combined with the knowledge of the different times, cultures, and seemingly worlds that Marcus and I have lived in.

The simple fact that I can still find guidance and means of application in his quote, even though we've lived in entirely different worlds, is a testament to the strength and timelessness attributed to it, when you view it with an abstract and open mind. Remove either the origins of the quote entirely, and we still have very true, and very enlightening words. Put them back into context, and they still are true and enlightening, simply in a different way.
 
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I beg to differ. I don't think you can attribute the all of the changes and liberties awarded to western culture over the last few thousand years simply to Christian teachings.

I don't. But only where there was a Christian influence did society develop the way it did. The combination of biblical and Greek thinking was a unique outcome. Rodney Stark has written on this.

On another note, you speak in the absolutes that are in most cases absent from religious debate by a defensive Christian. I can see why, because in this case, it's not your faith that's under attack, but rather mine. Let's look at what we've said here.

The quote, based on the living of a 'good' life.

Then my explanation of the quote.

Then your explanation of what it probably meant to Marcus Aurelius.

Now put those three things together, combined with the knowledge of the different times, cultures, and seemingly worlds that Marcus and I have lived in.

The simple fact that I can still find guidance and means of application in his quote, even though we've lived in entirely different worlds, is a testament to the strength and timelessness attributed to it, when you view it with an abstract and open mind. Remove either the origins of the quote entirely, and we still have very true, and very enlightening words. Put them back into context, and they still are true and enlightening, simply in a different way.

I have no issue with the inspiration you obtain from Marcus A. But, going back to some previous comments, worldview is important. Any society is based on an underlying set of beliefs. I pointed out some of Marcus A's likely worldview as a Roman citizen. Individual quotes can contain great wisdom. I enjoy some of Nietzsche's insights, but his philosophy spawned the German Nazis.

I do function from within a worldview, and hence I start from the abstract and/or broader principle in my thinking before I take account of detail. I am not intending to be either needlessly abstract or critical of another viewpoint, but basic assumptions (presuppositions) and their logical conclusions fascinate me. And I enjoy a good debate too. Sorry if I have come across as condescending or 'off with the fairies' in my replies. Keep making your challenges and I hopefully will engage usefully and courteously, even though I may get a bit direct at times. I hate typing long answers!

John
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I have no issue with the inspiration you obtain from Marcus A. But, going back to some previous comments, worldview is important. Any society is based on an underlying set of beliefs. I pointed out some of Marcus A's likely worldview as a Roman citizen. Individual quotes can contain great wisdom. I enjoy some of Nietzsche's insights, but his philosophy spawned the German Nazis.

I do function from within a worldview, and hence I start from the abstract and/or broader principle in my thinking before I take account of detail. I am not intending to be either needlessly abstract or critical of another viewpoint, but basic assumptions (presuppositions) and their logical conclusions fascinate me. And I enjoy a good debate too. Sorry if I have come across as condescending or 'off with the fairies' in my replies. Keep making your challenges and I hopefully will engage usefully and courteously, even though I may get a bit direct at times. I hate typing long answers!

John
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I agree about the point on worldview, and look forward to further discussing it with you! I think that your process is a good way of going about things when considering big issues like this. I agree, it's all very fascinating, too. And it's ok. You're not condescending at all! I actually look forward to your responses more than most! :D
 
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In response I say, I've found many more questions in my pursuance of biblical knowledge than I have in a quote that, when taken at face value, is nothing but a virtue of goodness and righteousness. I could also respond by drawing similarities between my faith in that quote, and your faith in the Bible. They both raise more questions than they answer, unless taken at face value, and lived by with faith.
So, your response is simply to ignore all the questions that arise very immediately from the quotation you offered? Interesting. You won't address the issues I've raised except to deflect them by pointing a finger in vague fashion back at Christianity. The thing is, you started this thread by asking about what we thought about your Marcus Aurelius quotation, not whatever problems you think there are with the Christian worldview.

I think the universal standard of a 'good' life could be defined as one lived solely on the principles of the betterment of mankind.
And who determines what "betterment" looks like? There are very widely varying views on this. Some think it means increasing the happiness quotient in society, others think it means developing a greater spiritual dimension to society, still others think it means making everyone equal in material condition, and so on. How does one decide what real betterment is?

The wholehearted sacrifice for your fellow man. To live a 'good' life by these standards would leave any sane man wholly satisfied that he had done 'right' by any benevolent force, including the aforementioned 'gods'.
Oh? How so? How do you know? You give no rationale for why this should be considered universally true for everyone. Others have very different views on what constitutes a life well-lived. What makes your view more true or authoritative than theirs?

What do you think is 'good'? Following God's law, even if it hurts people you care about, or people in general? If your God wishes harm on anyone, then I would see it fit to define that God as an unjust God.
Sometimes hurt and harm is necessary and demonstrates care and even love better than avoiding hurt and harm would. Imagine a person with a brain tumor. In order for him to continue living he must have highly invasive brain surgery. The surgeons will have to cut through the tissue and bone of his head in order to remove the tumor. This will cause much pain and discomfort to the afflicted man. In the long run, however, the temporary harm of the surgery will allow him to live a longer and fuller life. Doing nothing in order to avoid hurt and harm to this man would ultimately cost him his life. God often deals with us in the same way a surgeon must in order to heal sickness and disease. His fundamental motive is one of love, but sometimes that love can be tough.

Does God command His children to harm others? No. His highest command to us is to love Him and our neighbor as we love ourselves.

And the very point of this quote is that Marcus Aurelius does, in fact, NOT know what the God's want.
THen he can only guess at what they want, which is what I pointed out in my last post. The quotation you offered also says nothing about self-sacrifice, only living virtuously. But one man's virtue is another man's sin. How does one decide which "virtues" are supreme and thus ought to be followed?

He merely knows that if all of mankind lived by this virtue, the world would be a place of peace and content, regardless of the wants and needs of any Gods or outside forces.
In fact, MA does not know this. He is only assuming his ideas of virtue would produce the results he expects.

I think that you're misunderstanding the quote entirely. It's a quote stating that we should not concern ourselves with the wants of Gods or the Almighty, but rather live out our lives making the world a better place for those around us.
No, I understood this. I just think the quotation as it was given in this thread offers only a vague and superficial approach to living.

When viewed in this way, I think that it leaves no questions, and simply answers many I've had my whole life. I dare you to say that, when explained in this manner, there is any malcontent contained in this quote.
"Explained in this manner" means, it seems, "to spin the quotation in a way that suits me and makes it say what I want it to."

Selah.
 
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Haha it's good to know I'm in company. I've been raised believing in God, but not really going to church or anything. Never baptized. For the past few months I've been questioning my beliefs, just trying to look at all sides of the equation. I'm 15, some people say it's just a teenage phase.
 
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