I know it is just her personality, and I know my baby loves me because when I put her down on a play mat or bouncer and talk to her she smiles and giggles... but it is still difficult sometimes. She will let me hold her to feed her (though she can be VERY squirmy sometimes), and I can hold her for a bit, but then she fusses and wiggles... and I put her down and she's happy again. It makes me sad sometimes that she doesn't want to cuddle... I thought all babies loved being held and cuddled. I hope someday she might like cuddling...