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<blockquote data-quote="Shattered-Reflections" data-source="post: 66218584" data-attributes="member: 234870"><p>Newman, thank you for being open and honest <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> </p><p></p><p>I would not be shocked nor disgusted to find out someone I'm dating had/has an issue with inappropriate content. I know it's prolific in this day and age; sadly I expect it. I've had male christian friends who have struggled with it and were humbly open about it. I've put a lot of time and thought into this subject over the decade. My heart goes out to them, not disdain.</p><p></p><p>My personal stance is if I'm dating someone and they struggle with inappropriate content I would ask that they no longer view any explicit materials if we are to go further in the relationship. MB and sexual urges are acceptable but I would require the images be cut out of his life.</p><p></p><p>The problem with inappropriate content is if it's there before marriage it will likely be there in the marriage. I know this from married men I have spoken with. inappropriate content effects the way people view sex, themselves, and others. Cutting out inappropriate content allows for better influences to take its place. Moreover it is stifling spiritually, for his own sake I want to refocus himself on "what is true, admirable, and lovely". I have no delusionals how immense the struggle against inappropriate content is -- but I know there is healing and freedom from sin and addictions can be broken. It's not an easy road. It's a road that only grace can pull you through and drawing close to God. </p><p></p><p>I know there are others here will disagree with me. That's okay, you don't have to agree with me. This is just my personal view and where I'm at in my life. </p><p></p><p>Newman, there may be women who will turn you away because of your sins or weaknesses... but I want you to know God will never leave you because of your struggles. You are His child whom He loves. A relationship with a woman can fall apart for many reasons including your own inadequacies -- But He will stick with you by your side because of His love.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shattered-Reflections, post: 66218584, member: 234870"] Newman, thank you for being open and honest :) I would not be shocked nor disgusted to find out someone I'm dating had/has an issue with inappropriate content. I know it's prolific in this day and age; sadly I expect it. I've had male christian friends who have struggled with it and were humbly open about it. I've put a lot of time and thought into this subject over the decade. My heart goes out to them, not disdain. My personal stance is if I'm dating someone and they struggle with inappropriate content I would ask that they no longer view any explicit materials if we are to go further in the relationship. MB and sexual urges are acceptable but I would require the images be cut out of his life. The problem with inappropriate content is if it's there before marriage it will likely be there in the marriage. I know this from married men I have spoken with. inappropriate content effects the way people view sex, themselves, and others. Cutting out inappropriate content allows for better influences to take its place. Moreover it is stifling spiritually, for his own sake I want to refocus himself on "what is true, admirable, and lovely". I have no delusionals how immense the struggle against inappropriate content is -- but I know there is healing and freedom from sin and addictions can be broken. It's not an easy road. It's a road that only grace can pull you through and drawing close to God. I know there are others here will disagree with me. That's okay, you don't have to agree with me. This is just my personal view and where I'm at in my life. Newman, there may be women who will turn you away because of your sins or weaknesses... but I want you to know God will never leave you because of your struggles. You are His child whom He loves. A relationship with a woman can fall apart for many reasons including your own inadequacies -- But He will stick with you by your side because of His love. [/QUOTE]
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