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CounselorForChrist

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No. We all love our mothers and siblings. But to me the order is God, Wife, Kids, Other family, Friends. I'd be offended as a mother and wife. He could always call her, send her a card...etc. Picking you should be an easy choice.

My dad means well but when its mother days he makes my mom go to brunch with his mother and the other aunts instead of giving her, her own special brunch...etc for the two of them. Well or with me too obviously.
 
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Just a thought...do you think it's acceptable for your husband to fly home to be with his mother and siblings on Mother's Day instead of with his wife and kids?

If you want him to be there for you, no.

If you want to live self-sacrificially, yes.

If there's deeper issues, well, maybe that's what this is really about.

I'm not exactly sure how God ordained Mother's Day.

Personally, I'm a pretty simple husband and just might pick based upon a) the meal and b) the lack of drama of the conversation with it.

Alternatively, I might try to please everybody.

Hard to say.

Thanks for reminding me though, I need to fix the dryer, fix the computer, buy my wife and stepmom some flowers and do a few other things too.
 
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