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sarahknavy

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I recently had my second child. I knew it was going to be a rough adjustment, but I didn't expect the amount or trouble I am having.

My First is almost 2 and he is challenging in normal 2 year old ways. Climbing on things, taking this out of places and putting them in other places, not listening, whining.... normal stuff.

But my baby girl is sooooo frustrating. She is a very high needs baby. She doesn't sleep well, has reflux and is on medication, had some other issues that required many dr appt to test(which is sgtressful becasue we only have one car and we live on an island.) She is relatively healthy other than the reflux issues. She just got over RSV and that was an added challenge.

On top of that I am on a special diet to help her reflux and I miss eating food. I am having a hard time cooking for my family because nothing ever sounds appetizing. I don't fit into any of my clothes yet, so I am stuck in a rut with wearing pjs and my husbands t shirts.

All this and my husband is set to deploy very soon. I have no family in this area and only one friend who is not much in the way of Christian encouragement. I have a lot of family lined up to come see me and I know that will help.

I am really just having a hard time remembering to be joyful and patient with my children. Any advice on what to read that would put me in a better mindset and encourage me through this difficult time.
 

ksnyder0925

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My son had reflux and was VERY demanding too. I gave up on breastfeeding and began Nutramegine.. "If I spelled that right." It made a world of difference. Also there is an all natural stuff called, "Colic Calm" It's for reflux too and made of like black tea and chamomile this will help her sleep. I also started giving my son a bath with Johnsons bedtime bath to help him sleep. One thing I noticed with my son is he loves cool... I would bundle him up and he would be so fussy. When I started just laying him down in just his diaper he was out. It is a challenging road and is the reason I dread ever having more.
 
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