I have to say it was my husband.
Also, right after I was saved I was browsing for scriptural teachings once, and I came across a sermon by a Pastor who taught in England in the 1800's or something - I absolutely don't remember his name, but in reading his sermon I knew in my heart that he knew what I knew about God, that this teacher had experienced the same God as I did..
I asked my husband about the Pastor, because even though it's terribly difficult for me to understand that form of English, I understood everything that man said very easily.
My husband then told me that was some famous reformed Pastor, and I knew God put me in the exact place He wanted me to be in, and gave me the husband He wanted me to have.
So although I try to figure things out most the time without my husband, I have him to fall back on always. He is my greatest teacher, in the living human category..