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Never mind, I found it:

...but should write to them to abstain from the things polluted by idols, and from sexual immorality, and from what has been strangled, and from blood. Acts 15:20

See? Sexual immorality, not fornication. Sex before marriage is not a bad thing in OT Law, so this verse doesn't say it carries over because there's nothing about sex before marriage to carry over.
Moses taught that if a young man sleeps with a virgin, he must seek to marry her, and that if her father refuses to let him marry her he still must pay the dowry.
 
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I would agree with this. Would you say that we should continue to evolve our ethics as society evolves even if it seems to go against the Bible which was written for a different time period?
Yes, though I think we should be guided by the principles that Jesus taught.
 
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I would agree with this. Would you say that we should continue to evolve our ethics as society evolves even if it seems to go against the Bible which was written for a different time period?
The Bible and the author the Spirit of Truth are the best teacher on ethics.

Moses' law came with an oral tradition but also the Spirit of prophecy.
The NT came with Moses' law revised, the Spirit of prophecy, and the apostles and the teacher of all truth the Holy Spirit. Christians are disciples of the apostles and are sometimes gifted and moving out from the "hard hearts" of society we abolished slavery by agreeing with the apostles gentle revolution and with the Spirit of truth, who is grace and desires our peace.
 
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It actually is in there. Jesus mentioned things should be as they were in the start.
Verse? I know the next bit you're talking about, but it wasn't preceded by "and things should be the way they originally were" or anything like that. It was in specific reference to marriage and divorce.
Israel was taught not to make slaves like they were made slaves, when God freed them.
Israel was instructed not to "man-catch" as it were. That's it. They could still buy slaves from foreigners who probably did the "man-catching" thing and they enslaved the populaces of some of the cities they sacked (when they didn't kill everyone anyways). Fathers could sell their daughters into permanent slavery (not talking about arranged marriages, I'm talking about slavery). Etc. The OT is not the place to go to show the Bible has a problem with slavery.
 
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I'm going to get out in front of this one though and point out that when the NT says "fornication" they don't mean specifically "sex before marriage". It means all sexual immorality (pornea), but you'll have to look back at the original Greek to see that or use a very literal interpretation of the Bible. I like ESV, personally.
By the 1st Cent, porneia (at least in the Jewish culture) included a number of illicit sexual acts, include pre-marital intercourse. When a NT author used the word, did he mean "illicit sex according to whatever definition your culture has" or "illicit sex, meaning the actions I'm thinking of." I'd guess that the second meaning was intended. In that case, the NT probably does assume that all sex outside of marriage is condemned, though I wouldn't want to stake very much on the assertion that Jesus himself used that word. (At least the English translation is used only once, in Mark 7:21 and parallel, and given the lack of quotation marks in the original it's not clear whether Jesus said it or it's part of an editor's explanation.)
 
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Moses taught that if a young man sleeps with a virgin, he must seek to marry her, and that if her father refuses to let him marry her he still must pay the dowry.
That's a fun one. You know that applies to rape too? Since you've mentioned the oral tradition, I'd point out that in the Talmud when it is a case of rape the girl must marry the rapist, but if it's consensual then the father or the rapist can say no. He still has to pay the father no matter what though. Which also means that not every time a man has sex with a virgin is he required to marry her. Unless you want to throw out the Talmud, but then a man can still have sex with women who has already had sex. For instance, divorcees can hook up.
 
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By the 1st Cent, porneia (at least in the Jewish culture) meant all illicit sex. When a NT author used the word, did he mean "illicit sex according to whatever definition your culture has" or "illicit sex, meaning the actions I'm thinking of." I'd guess that the second meaning was intended. In that case, the NT probably does assume that all sex outside of marriage is condemned, though I wouldn't want to stake very much on the assertion that Jesus himself used that word. (At least the English translation is used only once, in Mark 7:21 and parallel, and given the lack of quotation marks in the original it's not clear whether Jesus said it or it's part of an editor's explanation.)
When did all sex outside of marriage start being condemned to interpret it that way though? Personally, if the NT uses the words "sexual immorality" my mind goes straight to the list of "laws concerning sexual immorality" but if there's something else I'm open to that. I just haven't seen it yet.
 
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You asked me for a quote from Genesis. I assumed you knew that "The Law" didn't exist until Moses who didn't make an appearance in that book, so I don't understand why you would expect a quote from Genesis to have anything about "The Law" in it.
Well, you don't seem to understand the purpose of the OT Law and why it was given to the Jews as compared to what is written in Genesis.
It can't be explained by you to me. Is that better? I don't care if you think the burden is on my inability to understand something or not. You're claiming that something in any other context than the Bible that would be considered contradictory is not contradictory and I just don't understand why it isn't because I'm not a believer. If you have to resort to "you won't understand until you believe" then I consider that a point for me. You don't think there's ever anything wrong with the contradictions in the Bible, though you can't demonstrate it to anyone except those that already agree with you.
The short answer is yes. I explained the passage to you but you are unable to see it as anything other than a contradiction because the explanation satisfies the 'natural man' in you. 1 Corinthians 2:14 says that to the 'natural man' (those without the Holy Spirit) all scripture is foolishness.
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14 But G1161 the natural G5591 man G444 receiveth G1209 not G3756 the things G3588 of the Spirit G4151 of God G2316: for G1063 they are G2076 foolishness G3472 unto him G846: neither G2532 G3756 can G1410 he know G1097 them, because G3754 they are spiritually G4153 discerned G350.
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14 A person who isn’t spiritual doesn’t accept the things of God’s Spirit, for they are nonsense to him. He can’t understand them because they are spiritually evaluated.
So, until you are a believer much of scripture, especially the spiritual meanings, will remain a mystery to you regardless of how someone tries to explain. This is the very reason so many non-believers come up with so many strange ideas about Christianity.
If a Muslim, Hindu, or Buddhist said the same thing to you about their holy text, you'd be in the same position I'm in.
Only if their 'scripture' were of God which it is not.......
 
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That's a fun one. You know that applies to rape too? Since you've mentioned the oral tradition, I'd point out that in the Talmud when it is a case of rape the girl must marry the rapist, but if it's consensual then the father or the rapist can say no. He still has to pay the father no matter what though. Which also means that not every time a man has sex with a virgin is he required to marry her. Unless you want to throw out the Talmud, but then a man can still have sex with women who have already had sex. For instance, divorcees can hook up.
You don't seem to catch on with the concept of justice or fair play and that Jesus revised the law because it was given to hard hearted people. You deliberately ignore things like the oral traditions, the Spirit of prophecy, good examples for record like Ruth, the apostles the gifts and the Spirit of truth.
 
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Can you point that out to me please? Acts is a big book. And again, are they speaking specifically about sex before marriage, or sexual immorality? Because if it's the latter, then you need to show where sex before marriage is sexually immoral.
Fornicate meant sex outside of marriage; guess what?.....it still means that today.
 
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That's a fun one. You know that applies to rape too? Since you've mentioned the oral tradition, I'd point out that in the Talmud when it is a case of rape the girl must marry the rapist, but if it's consensual then the father or the rapist can say no. He still has to pay the father no matter what though. Which also means that not every time a man has sex with a virgin is he required to marry her. Unless you want to throw out the Talmud, but then a man can still have sex with women who has already had sex. For instance, divorcees can hook up.
It shows so much hard heartedness and lack of conversion to the glory revealed to them, after which they still grumbled. But from Moses' command comes a principle still kept today when fathers say, "Son, if you have made her pregnant then do the right thing and marry her."
 
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That's a fun one. You know that applies to rape too? Since you've mentioned the oral tradition, I'd point out that in the Talmud when it is a case of rape the girl must marry the rapist, but if it's consensual then the father or the rapist can say no. He still has to pay the father no matter what though. Which also means that not every time a man has sex with a virgin is he required to marry her. Unless you want to throw out the Talmud, but then a man can still have sex with women who has already had sex. For instance, divorcees can hook up.
Which part of the Talmud are you referring to, the Mishnah or the Gemara? And why this fixation with OT? As Christians we have a new covenant with God and it is spelled out in the Gospels and the rest of the NT.
 
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When did all sex outside of marriage start being condemned to interpret it that way though? Personally, if the NT uses the words "sexual immorality" my mind goes straight to the list of "laws concerning sexual immorality" but if there's something else I'm open to that. I just haven't seen it yet.
TDNT says in the period between the OT and NT it widened to include all sex outside marriage. They cite a number of examples, but without tracking down the originals it's hard for me to assess whether they're right. Most commentators seem to agree, though, so I assume they're right.

One commentary notes that in Roman society men often had wives to bear their legitimate children and mistresses for sexual satisfaction. Christianity rejected this, maintaining that sex should only be within marriage.
 
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You don't need to beat someone to rape them. I think that's what NV meant by "non-violent". I'm sure he didn't mean to discount how traumatizing rape is.

Correct, thank you.

Even consenting because of a fear of perceived violence is still rape, but it isn't actually violent in any normal use of the word.

Good luck getting through with that. By his definition of violence, a doctor giving a kid the flu shot against his will is violent.

NV dropped this one way too easily.

Guilty. Take it from here mate, I simply can't deal with that guy any more.
 
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Correct, thank you.



Good luck getting through with that. By his definition of violence, a doctor giving a kid the flu shot against his will is violent.



Guilty. Take it from here mate, I simply can't deal with that guy any more.

I know your not really equating rape with a flew shot. So you really don't think a man penetrating a womans body with his penis, finger or flashlight without her consent is not violence against her? Interesting.
 
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It shows so much hard heartedness and lack of conversion to the glory revealed to them, after which they still grumbled.

Why didn't Abe Lincoln let the confederacy keep the slaves after the civil war? After all, if they were so hard of heart then they should just get what they want, right?

But from Moses' command comes a principle still kept today when fathers say, "Son, if you have made her pregnant then do the right thing and marry her."

ND is talking about rape. See Deuteronomy 22:28-29. I didn't even have to look that up because I've referenced it so many times. There are no shotgun weddings from rape. More like shotgun murders, presuming it is proper to refer to the ridding of a rapist as murder.

We love our women today. Back then, women had a small amount of personhood and it was basically a "you break it, you buy it" policy when it came to rape.
 
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I know your not really equating rape with a flew shot. So you really don't think a man penetrating a womans body with his penis, finger or flashlight without her consent is not violence against her? Interesting.
The reasoning behind it seems somewhat shallow also....
 
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Why didn't Abe Lincoln let the confederacy keep the slaves after the civil war? After all, if they were so hard of heart then they should just get what they want, right?



ND is talking about rape. See Deuteronomy 22:28-29. I didn't even have to look that up because I've referenced it so many times. There are no shotgun weddings from rape. More like shotgun murders, presuming it is proper to refer to the ridding of a rapist as murder.

We love our women today. Back then, women had a small amount of personhood and it was basically a "you break it, you buy it" policy when it came to rape.
Abe L did not want heart conversion and had the power to enforce his policy through victory in war right? I did not learn US history. Moses depended on the Hebrews.

ND was not talking about rape, he was writing to me about fornication and the extract of Jewish tradition kept by revision by Jesus and Peter and John... Kept for the Christians from Jewish and gentile back grounds.
 
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Abe L did not want heart conversion and had the power to enforce his policy through victory in war right? I did not learn US history. Moses depended on the Hebrews.

Moses did not depend on the people. It was the other way around. Moses, in turn, depended on God. And God endorsed violent chattel slavery.

ND was not talking about rape, he was writing to me about fornication and the extract of Jewish tradition kept by revision by Jesus and Peter and John... Kept for the Christians from Jewish and gentile back grounds.

Post 66 was addressed to you.
 
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Moses did not depend on the people. It was the other way around. Moses, in turn, depended on God. And God endorsed violent chattel slavery.



Post 66 was addressed to you.
Israel depended on Moses for righteousness and the favour of God... but Moses depended on Israel for obedience and service, food and protection unless one considers the part of that time when God wanted to start again, just with Moses.

God did not endorse slavery as we have said and I say again, God wanted Israel to remember how Egypt treated them and not to repeat.
Jesus is God and at the more opportune time, after Ruth and being also descended from Jesse of Boaz, explained that Moses made concession because Israel was hard of heart, they may have rejected God or Moses if he was exact.

As for ND post 66 and fornication, I was explaining that Moses taught and we practice, by interpretation, to marry if there has been a fornication. Also that Peter extracted from the laws, with authority over Moses, that fornication was sin and not to be practiced by Jewish and gentile Christians. According to the spiritual and soft hearted theme.
 
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