We have God, and Jesus is our way to God and to His benefits of His morality.
If that works for you, great. It doesn't for the rest of us who are, let's say, less impressed by his claims and morality.
Everyone is benefiting, somehow, whether we know it or not.
"God resists the proud" (in James 4:6 and also in 1 Peter 5:5).
This is why I in my self-righteous ways of "Christian" morality do not succeed in getting all that I might dictate is right, as I claim only what everyone else is supposed to do. And you can read Romans 1:18-32, to see how others have gotten into an emotional trap because they have supposed they are too good and too smart for God > in their seeking for pleasure, instead of first seeking God for Himself.
If that works for you, great. It doesn't for the rest of us who are, let's say, less impressed by his claims and morality.
Jesus is not conceited, even though there are humans who think He is not good enough for Him > so He has suffered and died on the cross and is now humble to love and forgive us, though we have refused Him. This is included in God's morality . . . for Himself, to be so humble with us.
I think it’s about as close to a moral absolute as I can imagine but in my country there was no crime of rape between a husband and wife for quite some time. It only changed in 1991.
So it’s still relative and not absolute.
So, there are husbands, then, who are not humble about being refused by their wives?? The Bible says,
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
So, I must not lord myself over my wife, by forcing her. Also, we have >
"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)
So, to me this means we need ***m-u-t-u-a-l*** submission in our close relating; with this, we have >
"The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does." (1 Corinthians 7:4)
So, there can be immoral ways of living in heterosexual marriage, meaning the couple themselves can be immoral . . . with each other . . . if there is forcing and whatever you call it when one is holding back in order to get his or her own way.
Another thing > I see how this does not mean so each one can get all the pleasure he or she desires, just using the other; but it means so I have power to love the other, and not be limited by her "independence" when I could do her good. And it means she can help me, though my pride might dictate that I don't need her.
So, it means for loving, not for using. People whose real preference is for pleasure have gotten into quite a trap, as I see through Romans 1:18-32.
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But if there is a crime of rape between husband and wife then it would be absolute? Isn't that what you are saying?
My offering is > even if no law is in the books against rape in marriage > it still is rape . . . absolutely
Now, I think of this > you could have God's absolute rules about something like this, but how can you enforce this? What if she is the only witness who will testify, and he won't???? God's word also says we must have "two or three witnesses" to any crime >
"'One witness shall not rise against a man concerning any iniquity or any sin that he commits; by the mouth of two or three witnesses the matter shall be established.'" (Deuteronomy 19:15)
That is in the earlier scriptures, yes, but our Apostle Paul says, for church moral judgments >
"By the mouth of two or three witnesses every word shall be established." (in 2 Corinthians 13:1)
He says, "every word", while the earlier Bible says "the matter". So, he goes farther, I would say. And I see how some number of morality activists leave this out, and only go after certain wrong people, not dealing with problems which can help cause people to become morally wrong. Ones can argue that it is not legally practical to enforce certain things. But I would say it can be good to make a good law, so the wrong thing is an issue and at least gets attention.
For example, God's moral rules include >
"Do all things without complaining and disputing," (Philippians 2:14)
Therefore, according to this, what God means by *arguing* is not moral . . . and, yes, arguing can be quite abusive so children have a bad example so they do not grow up knowing how to love, and so they can get into the stuff they are into, today, in their desperation for something to make them feel good > going after pleasure because they are not deeply satisfied by God's love in their relating: they have intimacy with their pleasure feelings, but not deep and perfect sustainable satisfaction in God's gentle and quiet love.
But, "give me a break!!" > how are you going to enforce a law not to argue?? You can make the law and teach in schools how to relate in love. Then the issue has been made, at least. But, yes, activists have a way of not dealing with things, including arguing abusively, which have helped bring the problems we now see.
So, if you come up with some "absolute" morality which does not deal with certain causes, including things practiced in a "number" of church culture households . . . this is why it won't work and God might not favor your effort. Because His morality includes how I must be a good example, not only pointing at certain other people who are wrong. And so I can be "the one" He is resisting

because of how now already God is practicing His absolute morality.