I can appreciate the frustration people feel in the difficulty in critically understanding literature. In some senses the folks who don't really study the scriptures, ancient literature in general, and so on are at a real disadvantage with being able to glean meaning from the passages. Is it right that 2 conflicting interpretations can be correct about a verse in the bible? No... that would be illogical.
Although what I said made a great deal of sense and is a very rational explanation of that verse's meaning. All I did was spend an extra few minutes thinking about what is being said rather than reading it and immediately jumping to a conclusion. This OP suggests that if someone is our model, then we should imitate them. So if Bob were my hero and I see him kiss his wife, then I should follow his lead and kiss Bob's wife. That's very poor reasoning. Instead we should step back, look at the motives, and understand the situation. God being perfect would want everyone to also be perfect. This being one of the commandments, God is saying I am perfect, place ME which is pure perfection, love, reason, and so on as the foremost of your desires.