Mixed Signals?

[trumpetgirl1]

Recently me and my soon to be ex, who I'm not close to being over, are on talking terms now. He called to talk to our daughter and we ended up talking. He asked me how I was and I told him that I missed him on certain days and that I missed having our family together. He didn't really say how he felt about me but said that he resolved in his mind that it was over. You see he's coming to see the girls this weekend for two days and asked me to have dinner with them so the girls can see us getting along. Then about three days later he asked me to hang out with them for the day. I don't know what to think. I really want this marriage to work out even though he has a lot of changing to do before it could get better, but I'm willing. Anyway, please let me know what you think, I have been praying for my husband and for our marriage to be restored.
In Christ,
trumpetgirl1

 

[kanga22]

Well, from what little info. you have provided, I'd say he wants to figure out how you two can seperate AND be friendly at the same time. You should talk to him about his intentions. Maybe he's lonely and not quite sure what to do about it. He might be giving mixed signals without realizing it.

It sounds like you need to clear up the facts with him so you know how to proceed. . I am fighting for my marriage as well, and am not sure whether my dh is going to meet me half-way. He hasn't said "it's over". Although he acts like he's ready to walk away sometimes. It's frustrating, I know.

Some people on here have recommended a book called Boundaries in Marriage. I haven't had any extra money to buy it yet, but plan too as soon as I can. Maybe it would be a useful read for you too.