Miscarriage

[GeorgeB]

My ex girlfriend and I had 2 miscarriages in the course of about 4 or 5 months. The first one was when I was in Virginia for a week taking care of some business and she was in North Carolina still with her 2 sons. We talked the night I came back home on the phone and she told me she had something she wanted to talk to me about when I got back. I already knew there was a possibly she was pregnant but we didn't know for sure or not. When I got back to North Carolina and to the house. We hugged for what seemed like hours but was for maybe 15 minutes. Then she sat me down and it felt as if someone ripped my heart out. Just as waivering83 said. I was looking forward to changing diapers, coming up with baby's names, picking things out we would need, Christmas, Birthdays, Easter, you name it!. I will never forget that feeling. It was the hardest thing anyone has ever told me!.
The second time was a few months later. She started developing pregnancy symptons. We bought several tests and some came back positive and other came back negative. We were getting really worried because we once again were so excited and happy but at the same time scared to death. We were geting ready to make a appointment with a doctor for a blood test when she we found out one day she had a miscarriage. It was just as if someone ripped our hearts out all over again.

Romeo.

 

[Akathist]

Romeo,

It is so hard for men and I think so few people realize how helpless fathers of miscarried babies feel.

My husband was just as hearbroken as I was with my miscarriage!

 

[LeighLock]

My ex girlfriend and I had 2 miscarriages in the course of about 4 or 5 months. The first one was when I was in Virginia for a week taking care of some business and she was in North Carolina still with her 2 sons. We talked the night I came back home on the phone and she told me she had something she wanted to talk to me about when I got back. I already knew there was a possibly she was pregnant but we didn't know for sure or not. When I got back to North Carolina and to the house. We hugged for what seemed like hours but was for maybe 15 minutes. Then she sat me down and it felt as if someone ripped my heart out. Just as waivering83 said. I was looking forward to changing diapers, coming up with baby's names, picking things out we would need, Christmas, Birthdays, Easter, you name it!. I will never forget that feeling. It was the hardest thing anyone has ever told me!.
The second time was a few months later. She started developing pregnancy symptons. We bought several tests and some came back positive and other came back negative. We were getting really worried because we once again were so excited and happy but at the same time scared to death. We were geting ready to make a appointment with a doctor for a blood test when she we found out one day she had a miscarriage. It was just as if someone ripped our hearts out all over again.

Romeo.

Hey Romeo18,
I'm sorry to hear of your losses. Unfurtionately from experiece I know your pain. I have lost two pregnancies with in six monthes of each other. The pain you feel is hard to relate to others. I pray that you find strength and comfort in the Lord at this time.

 

[bornagain-053184]

romeo-
Iam sooo sorry for your loss... i know what its like.. its a pain that is very hard to describe i just wish that my ex was as supportive as you are... hang in there hun when its time you will have a daughter or a son.. much love
stephanie

 

[lizadeller]

Miscarriage is a devastating thing for any couple. Recovering from a miscarriage makes you feel depressed, hopeless and angry. However, it is very common for a woman to want to conceive immediately after a miscarriag.

 

[shinysunny]

These little babies are now angel that we may see later on. We have lost a baby too and after the miscarriage was completed at the hospital we went to the chapel and prayed to God for our family and this little soul.

I understand how painful it feels. Wishing you well
Lots of hugs

 

[RuthD]

My heart goes out to you all. I'm very sorry for your losses.

 

[mcrickeo]

Hey Romeo.

I know where your coming from I know how your feeling I can empathize with your situation. I wont pretend to know exactly how you feel because everyone is different.

But I went through this and the amount of support for guys who have had to go through this is very small.

I know saying that I am sorry for your loss wont make up for it and it most certainly wont take away the hurt and pain it stays with us for life.

But it does get easier it will get easier.

Hold on for the hope of a better tomorrow and just know everything happens for a reason though we may not understand it now one day God will tell us.

Keep your head up high and remain strong hold on for a better tomorrow and the knowledge that one day God will take away all this earthly pain and wipe away every tear from our eyes.

If you want a rainbow you have to put up with the rain.

Remember that.

Here if you ever want to chat.

Rick

 

[soul sister]

i am so sorry for your loss