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MikeCarra
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While I won't argue that a trust fund kid who inherited millions was given his life and didn't earn it...
This whole idea that it's all just luck (the opposite extreme) is equally bogus.
Nor did I say that.
But if one fails to remember that whatever bad has befallen someone can, indeed, befall them then one will ultimately face something they are unable to get past.
As I said before, I grew up in a poorer household, went to a mediocre public school (at best), completely paid for my own education (no grants, no help from anyone), put in 16 hour days for 3 years straight (between working full-time in a minimum wage warehouse job and night school), and busted my hump on my job for the last 8 year to get into a Sr. position... I absolutely earned my nice condo and my Audi
Really? You absolutely positive about that? No chance that something could have been lucky for you?
...I did my research, picked a field that I both enjoyed and had an excellent job placement rate, busted my butt making sure I graduated in the top 5% of my class, and gave 110% on the job. Luck had nothing to do with it...
Very nice for you.
I spent 11 years in college getting my doctorate in a field with a good future and then stepped out into a world where the hiring was down. Thankfully I had enough experience in an ancillary area that I could get a foot in the door.
I took the lowest level job (by hiding the fact I had a PhD) and worked like a dog. When a PhD level position came open I was overlooked for it. So I moved on.
But I remember that I put in a LOT of work, just like you (probably even more because I voluntarily lived in poverty for even longer while doing post doctoral appointments, and taking lower jobs to make sure I had even more experience).
I still think that my modest success (I don't make enough to afford an Audi...I have a commuter car and live in a modest home) is underlain by many advantages I got.
The minute I forget for one minute the help I got getting where I am I am in grave danger of thinking myself too good.
It helps keep me humble. But I know at any point I can (and likely will) be laid off.
Because I'm now 50 you can bet I'll not be able to get back to this level.
Is it because I'm not good and hard working? Nope. It's because of something beyond my control (the way companies hire).
So, indeed, if you got to where you were and you are CERTAIN there was nothing that YOU didn't directly control, then I wish you good luck with that. That attitude and lack of wisdom and insight will likely not serve you well in the long run.
Especially if you work in the tech sector.
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