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I may be in the wrong place. I don't see any post by males. I am a 57 yr. old male who grew up in a very brutal home. There was no sex stuff. Just a lot of violence and emotional trauma.
I became an alcoholic drug addict as a young adult and joined A.A as a young man (27 yrs.old) I have been sober 21yrs. Thru the years, I have spent a lot of time in counseling, etc. I consider myself pretty much recovered these days. But, I will never forget. There have been a lot of struggles and heart-ache along the way. Divorce, lose of children, etc. Abused people tend to act out.
I feel I have learned a lot and have a desire to give back for what I have been given.
I am attempting to write a book about my family and what I have learned.
I would like to ask you folks to go to the writers guild page on the hobby forum here on C.F. and read both "Hi, I'm new here" and "This may be the foreword to the book". Please post your comments and thoughts. You may find the foreward a little hard to read because when I pasted the material into the forum, it did away with the paragraph indents and line spacing. I think you might find it interesting and I hope you will respond with your comments.
What is written in the foreword is the truth. Much of the book will be fictionalized to protect members of my family who do not wish to be exposed to public embarassment.
Please feel free to P.M. me here on C.F.
I wish for each of you PEACE and the JOY of living a life free from the past.:thumbsup:
 

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Hi! I can relate alot to what you have written. My husband Ron and I are both recovering alcoholic/addicts with 19 years clean and sober! So congratulations on your 21 year accomplishment! That is HUGE! And my heart goes out to you for the pain you endured in the midst of the journey! Ron and I know today that every bit of it was needed and I can actually find gratitude today for those tough times!

My past is the biggest asset I have in my life today because God is using it to draw others to recovery and to HIM! It is exciting!

I will try and find that forum and check out what you are talking about. I am glad you are here.
 
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Welcome to the survivors of abuse subforum! It does seem that there are mostly women here, but there are some men who do post. It doesn't matter what your sex is, it all hurts the same.

Please hang around with us and share. I'm sure that you have a lot of support to offer us, and we will try to support you.

Peace and blessings.
 
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