Milla said:
This is off-topic, but this sort of complaint always very much upsets me. There are thousands and thousands if not millions of children needing homes. The problem is that most petty bourgeois types are looking for a "perfect" newborn, as though it were a collector's item. If potential adoptors were more willing to open their hearts to needy children who have some disability or problem, or are of a different race than the adopting parent, or are older, they would find that they could adopt quite quickly. My own parents adopted several children whom I now proudly call siblings, and no adoption took more than a year from contacting the agency to signing the final documents.
Adopting a child should be for the good of the child. If someone's heart is not big enough for a child other than a "perfect" newborn, well...I have my doubts.
I'm a pro-choice person, however I disagree that there are millions needing homes. There arn't enough agencies that provide that, and most parents would like to adopt a caucasian rather than an african or asian. Being asian myself, I've seen a lot of chinese girls die of starvation in China...
The reason why I'm pro-choice, is because we live in a democratic society.
However, if my wife was pregnant, and I didn't want the Baby, then for me the ethical decision will be left within my household, that is I will be pro-life for my Child.
I've seen many young mothers that are too young financially to have a child, and their fathers go off to disappear and create more babies...
Private health funding for abortion in my justification is wrong.
The ethical structure of abortion for me, is taht abortion should be done out of consideration of the grace rather than choice.
So I'm not really pro-choice.
Never the less, I would favor pro-choice for the benefit of society.
But I would seperate my involvement in both pro-choice and pro-life , for I know the wrath of God can come upon me.
God can say, why is it that you've ignored the pain of the poor women and have laid more burden on their backs rather than helping them get back on track with life?
Or God can say, why is it that you've supported the murders of the millions of Children...