Hi there, Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 months. We met through a mutual friend and have a lond distance relationship. We both met with similar previous relationships and identical struggles. We were both on a low and I believe we were brought together by God to pick each other up. After months of challenges and hurdles both our realtionships with God are where they should be, and a month ago a recieved a prophetic word that said I need to increase my faith and turst in God for him to truly bless us as a couple and move forward together.
After a hard summer I felt I was finally able to furfill this but I have just had the hardest weekend of my life. My girlfriend had been ill and just moved in to her new Uni house so she has been a bit of a wreck, i thought I shouldn't visit and let her settle in but she wanted to see me and I was totally missing her. Basically as she was in this state she treated me really abruptly, and showed harldy any compassion towards me. We both realised the situation and she has come up with this conclusion:
That God used this relationship to rebuild our faith, bring me closer to God and now that has happened she feels it may be time to be apart. This was exactely what happened with her X-boyfriend, and has said she has noticed so many parallels.
I still hold the prophecy close to my heart and is the reason for my current faith, but am beggining to think maybe this prohecy was wrong ? And am scared that if my relationship falls apart so will my faith because it will destroy my most powerfull testimony. She feels she needs to pray and get revelation from God, but have a feeling she has already decided to end it and make the wrong choice for both of us.
Neither of us are happy at this moment in time but I believe the last 8 months have built a foundation for us and she believes the complete opposite.
I love her, she loves me but says she may not be 'in love' with me.
Pray please and encourage me.
After a hard summer I felt I was finally able to furfill this but I have just had the hardest weekend of my life. My girlfriend had been ill and just moved in to her new Uni house so she has been a bit of a wreck, i thought I shouldn't visit and let her settle in but she wanted to see me and I was totally missing her. Basically as she was in this state she treated me really abruptly, and showed harldy any compassion towards me. We both realised the situation and she has come up with this conclusion:
That God used this relationship to rebuild our faith, bring me closer to God and now that has happened she feels it may be time to be apart. This was exactely what happened with her X-boyfriend, and has said she has noticed so many parallels.
I still hold the prophecy close to my heart and is the reason for my current faith, but am beggining to think maybe this prohecy was wrong ? And am scared that if my relationship falls apart so will my faith because it will destroy my most powerfull testimony. She feels she needs to pray and get revelation from God, but have a feeling she has already decided to end it and make the wrong choice for both of us.
Neither of us are happy at this moment in time but I believe the last 8 months have built a foundation for us and she believes the complete opposite.
I love her, she loves me but says she may not be 'in love' with me.
Pray please and encourage me.