Oh no, I don't mean to say that it's a non-factor overall. I just mean that it wouldn't be much of a factor in logical arguments, since the person would be focused more on emotional reasoning. I'm well aware of the effects of my own inferior Fe, but it's my Ti that does most of the decision making.
And while I do appreciate the long analysis that you gave, it doesn't really seem to address the issue I have with Te users and their sources of logic.
I didn't mean to imply you thought of it as a non-factor overall.
"just mean that it wouldn't be much of a factor in logical arguments, since the person would be focused more on emotional reasoning"
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I'm saying that this is where you are making the mistake. There is no real difference, other than how consciously aware you are about it. So when you say
"my Ti that does most of the decision making."
I'm going to assume you are using the same fundamental idea here (you might define it completely differently altogether, but I wouldn't know that unless you told me so).
More accurate would be to say "I decide according to Ti-Fe". It's not a balance of deciding by Ti, and putting Fe out of favor.
It is a matter of focusing on the Ti aspect of Ti-Fe and deciding according to this.
What you are actually rejecting on the whole is Te-Fe decision-making. That is why it is so hard for you to understand them. You function completely differently even though you (think you) are both talking about logic.
Te - I will decide according to what makes sense to everyone and is rational to everyone and according to what everyone understands
Fi - and I will decide according to what means the most to me, according to what I personally and subjectively value, and what feels right (and healthy)
Ti - I will decide according to what makes sense to me, even if nobody else gets it
Fe - I will decide according to what feels right to everyone, what most people value, and what promotes easy and harmony for everyone around me,
It can go into more detail than that, But the basic gist is that you can have a Fi-dom who is engaging in thinking. What they know is what they feel and they are not focused on the thinking aspect of how they are deciding. So they might send you a video that explains it. It doesn't mean the explanation is bad, it doesn't mean they don't understand it. They just don't know how to explain it because it isn't as consciously accessible to them as thinking is for you, based on how they function.
So that is how I would describe it as Fi.
In terms of it being Se oriented, it is still a social function. It tends to focus on the senses and the facts of things. Te isn't going to watch a video unless it is worth (Fi) it to them personally and individually. I don't think they would send a video that they chose that way.
But someone who is oriented towards Se, especially as a first or second choice, is going to see this as a totally fair thing to do. "I watched this, it helped, and also worked with my intuition, even though its repressed". So they send it to you too. And if they are an introvert they could just be saving energy.
And if they are both? For example, ISFP
Fi Se Ni Te
Then not only are they not going to waste energy because they have better things to do, but they can also recognize that you don't value the same things they do and understand they would only hurt themselves for no reason by putting in all that energy to talk to you when you are just going to dismiss it.
So hopefully that clarifies my intuition about who they might be. I don't know the people who you mean, which are the source of the truth and reality of the facts about them, so intuition was all I had to go on in terms of my reply.
For the record, I don't send videos and neither do I watch them. I rather like explaining my reasoning even as extraverted thinking.
One of the main reasons I don't go for the videos or the pop-science version of MBTI which is what most of it is now, is because I see it as mainly extraverted feeling and introverted thinking. People subjectively telling their definitions inconsistent to any empiricism or logic, but all according to what makes people feel good about themselves and makes it easier to share the videos, spread the superificial thinking around, and get more likes and subscribers. To me that is a clear and consistent example of introverted thinking and extraverted feeling working together in tandem.
So you might have gather through extraverted feeling a sort of constraints on your thinking. I chose to go with thinking that had a broader scope - to preserve my rationality, based on what I value.
Sorry for the overly long analyses. I hope what I meant is clearer now.