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Maybe I'm single because of what grandma did to me

Will Joseph

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When I was a kid, my grandma used to touch my stuff while smiling and teasing me. I remember hiding from her when she did that. I think she did it to my brother too, even with us together. I don't think I told my parents. If I did, apparently they didn't do anything about it. I do remember telling someone about it (I think a therapist) who dismissed it. Being abused at youth is horrific, especially because a victim might not remember what happened. The abuse can also spread infections.
 
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