If mas*** without thinking of sth that is sexy, say, considering as a comfortable act, is it ok? I've struggled for it many times. Pls help me...
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May you kindly answer my question?
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Stephen Kendall
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My answer to your question is yes, except that the human mind will easily indulge in many things for its (sexual) climax, if the climax isn't forthcoming in the masturbation process, so marriage with love and commitment to God and your wife, in all honesty, is really the only way to do well. Being single isn't a good state for a sexually active man (or woman). Being young and with many natural & strong hormones can be a confusing time in a person's life.
Controlling ourselves is what it is all about. As a baby growing up, we must not fight, bite, get even & etc. With adolescence, a young person has to learn one of their hardest lessons, how to control sex. Marriage helps, but still we have to control ourselves within it.
Sex affects people quite differently since we are each unique, but still we have to control ourselves within our own environment, inside & out. It is important for us to form our character here and develop our own priorities. As a Christian, we need to make use of our time and not overly dwell on sex. It is not wrong for a young man (grown up) to marry. It is your right. It would satisfy the sex need in you, but it is still best to learn to control this part of maturity as becoming an adult. Within a good friendship, there is opportunity towards maturing together within respect towards God. Friends add light to a generally taboo subject, but they need to be strong Christians first and foremost.
Reading self help books (subjects about human sexuality) that are written by strong Christians can greatly benefit you. Viewing porn is truly evil. Pron turns a beautiful thing that God made for us into passions of lust without any self-worth or dignity. However, marriage is a beautiful creation and expresses sex in a beautiful way with the fruit of love, compassion and responsibility.
Don't be afraid to speak up and spell your words out. We all need help in life. True independence is through unity with others in our responsibility for our life. Love is meant to be unselfish and caring, holy before God, obeying him & Christ Jesus. We are meant to care for each other and have unity through Christ towards our Creator.
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