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Zebra1552

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Principle does not change despite who may know.

How they feel is unimportant, how they may feel is all that matters.
Wait, so I'm supposed to go around assuming people feel a certain way? That seems incredibly... ah... what's the word...
 
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After this post I am going to unsubscribe from this thread as nothing productive or interesting has been posted for many pages as you two continue to bicker. Ah....let's see...what's the word? Oh yes, there are two, embarrassing and annoying.
 
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After this post I am going to unsubscribe from this thread as nothing productive or interesting has been posted for many pages as you two continue to bicker. Ah....let's see...what's the word? Oh yes, there are two, embarrassing and annoying.

Roflrazzi, some people just don't understand.
 
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It is fruitless to debate this with David. He is bent on being "right" rather than growing. Although none of us are probably qualified (whatever that means) to teach David...he might accept the teachings of PhD-ed Biblical Scholars on this subject. I highly recommend going to Amazon.com and getting a book on this (and related) subjects. Look under "Christian Sexual Ethics". There are several good ones. I can recommend a few if you want.

The text above was taken from a post I made in this thread on December 6th...one week ago. There is nothing here to "win"...

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Lulz, and to think i was done fighting about it now anyways. What great timing he has. :)
Fighting? What is this fighting you speak of? Fighting is usually not one sided. :p
 
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Fighting? What is this fighting you speak of? Fighting is usually not one sided. :p

Well, MB is one sided...something we doe ourselves and doesn't cause harm to another person...certainly isn't sinful, just a normal act due to God given puberty that makes us have sexual thoughts and desires.
 
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Well, MB is one sided...something we doe ourselves and doesn't cause harm to another person...certainly isn't sinful, just a normal act due to God given puberty that makes us have sexual thoughts and desires.
^_^^_^ Good one! Needed that laugh...
 
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Well, MB is one sided...something we doe ourselves and doesn't cause harm to another person...certainly isn't sinful, just a normal act due to God given puberty that makes us have sexual thoughts and desires.

I only said it's dangerous, it's not like I said you should stop.
 
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You restrain from what is human and you might go out and do worst to a child or woman, how can anything that God made be bad for you if in moderation, expecially when you are married? Alot of poeple are told this is a sin so they have a brain cramp and do not touch their wifes and then go out and touch other woman or chidren subcounciously be cause you are told not to touch a woman or look at a woman so it embeds into your brain and you do not touch a woman you touch a child to substitute a woman, get it? onlyhisword
 
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It may have come across different in the heat of battle. :destroy:
NEVER! I am ALWAYS right about these things! :ebil:

Okay, note to self... don't post during finals week. :sohappy: :sayan: Specially not when you're sick! :ill:

But anyway, masturbation IS a battle! A battle to keep your thoughts from going any further than some casual fantasy, and you fight that battle WITH casual fantasy! Er... kinda.
 
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