Masturbation... is it wrong?

[blue_crystal]

and ps, nothing is wrong with oral sex. why would someone call that deviant?

 

[sparklecat]

Yeah, I was wondering that too. By the way, what counts as immoral, in your view?

 

[Chrono Traveler]

and ps, nothing is wrong with oral sex. why would someone call that deviant?

I met someone who said if a girl did that to any guy then shes a sl(I guess this word is censored).... Even if they are a married couple...

what can I say? people are weird.. =/

 

[sparklecat]

How odd. What if it's a guy doing it?

 

[Chrono Traveler]

How odd. What if it's a guy doing it?

Not sure. But still I said " well far be it from us to evaluate who people are from what they do with there lovers"

::shurgs:: if 2 ppl love eachother then I feel thats all it is is a symbol of that...I have no reason to see it as dirty.

 

[sparklecat]

Yep. So long as it's consensual, I've got no complaints.

 

[chuck010342]

So lust is ok within a marriage?

depends on how you define lust. But generally, yes.

 

[jesusfreak3786]

Well - actually - if the sex is good - sometime you can "see the light" that is quasi-religious !
But it also terrifying when these young people turn around and they attempt to speak so wisely about topics they truly know nothing about. I love the concept of a 17 year old unmarried virgin telling me what a married sexual relationship is (or should be) about... About what lust is...
My head is hurting

I've been married for 5 years, I have two kids.....I am very happy that chavis is posting what shes posting, she says what I think and can't seem to form into words, so if it takes someone who has been married, and had sex, well, I second her conviction.

 

[Mr_E]

How can you argue that it is not committing a sin when it is obviously lust. The Bible doesn't mention every possible way of committing adultery, but it doesn't mention every possible way of murdering either. Just because the Bible doesn't say thou shall not shoot somebody, doesn't mean it is ok to do so. The Bible does talk about lust and adultery and that includes masturbation.

 

[MQTA]

How can you argue that it is not committing a sin when it is obviously lust. The Bible doesn't mention every possible way of committing adultery, but it doesn't mention every possible way of murdering either. Just because the Bible doesn't say thou shall not shoot somebody, doesn't mean it is ok to do so. The Bible does talk about lust and adultery and that includes masturbation.

so don't do it. have a nice day

 

[TMack18]

I don't think there is nothing wrong with masturbation, you get to spend time with yourself.

 

[Mr_E]

so don't do it. have a nice day

That was my point...