So Mary was married to Jesus?
No. Typology does not mean an identical mirror. And for our OP, I will explain if it helps:
Jesus is the type of Adam:
Romans 5:14, 19 Yet death reigned from Adam to Moses, even over those whose sins were not like the transgression of Adam, who was a type of the One who was to come....by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by one man's obedience many will be made righteous.
You see Jesus is a type insofar as Adam was a key man who's level of obedience affected mankind's relationship with God. It does not mean that Jesus must be an identical reflection of all aspects of Adam---that he be married like Adam, have kids like Adam, etc... Certainly, a skeptic would not argue with Paul and say something like, "Oh, so then Jesus must have had kids too, huh. If he's a type of Adam...this is blasphemy!" No, that is not typology.
So too, Mary does not need to be the sacramentally married spouse of Adam's ante-type, Jesus. She reflects the woman's reversal of obedience, the reversal of Eve's disobedience (as all NT types are the glorified version of their OT parallels), as Scripture suggests and the early Church recognized through Tradition. We must submit to what God reveals on the matter.
dinomight, if you are reading up on church fathers on this matter,
here is a good little summary, along with a chart of parallels between the two.
In his debate,
Athanasias, as I now recall, summarized the matter concisely in this manner:
Mary in the New Testament is also a fulfillment of certain types namely Eve and the Ark of the Covenant. In Genesis Eve is described as a "Women" who disobeyed God. Genesis describes one woman (Eve) and one man (Adam) who are created initially immaculate. The woman and man are approached by one angel (who is fallen, the Devil) and they choose freely to disobey God and eat one food from one tree that would cause death for a whole race. In Luke's gospel the same is seen but only in reversed and redemptive way. In Luke one woman (Mary) is visited by one angel (who is holy, Gabriel) and this one woman freely chooses to obey and accept God's plan for her, unlike Eve. This one women would give birth to one man Jesus Christ who would die for all on a tree and give the world one food to eat that would give life to the whole human race (Holy Communion Jn 6:54-58).