Thank you NNSV, I appreciate that. I completely concur with you as well. My nephew, 16 years old, has never attended a dojo, but is very capable of defending himself (unfortunately he's had someone attempt to punch him before, and he was able to hold the person back, thankfully, using the martial arts knowledge he has.).
Originally my dearest Earthly friend (brother as far as I'm concerned) was teaching him whenever the two would visit with eachother. Eventually my nephew decided he wanted to beat my friend in a sparring match, as he never could come close, so he sought me out. As the running gag for, all of our lives has been that my friend and I, in some way break even in EVERYTHING we attempt. For every piece of knowledge he has, that I do not, I have a different piece of knowledge he is lacking, in martial arts, we too break even.
So, I began working with my nephew as well. He's absolutely amazed me with how well he's flourished, I still intend to go back to my dojo (having to take a hiatus, due to financial reasons, among other things, that are now resolved, praise God!) and I encourage my nephew to attend with me, when I do start back, as at my intermediate level I am very limited in what I can show him, and would love to see how well he'd grow under the tutelage of truly great instructors, such as the one's I've been blessed with.
I personally plan on returning to the dojo, for one to increase my martial arts skill and knowledge, and also to get into the black belt ranks. I someday hope to teach martial arts regularly, teaching my nephew has confirmed my love and passion for not just practicing, but sharing the martial arts with others.
So, I, as a result, want more skill, and more certification to teach with.
My primary point in all that being that you don't -have- to go to a dojo, if you have a trusted friend, or relative that has studied to any extend in the martial arts, they will most likely be able to help you learn it as well.
At any rate, as to the post concerning 'chakras' and 'spirits'. I personally have never encountered talk of spirits, though I'm sure there are dojos teaching such things, those, obviously should be avoided. As 1 John 4 mentions, we need to try the spirit, a martial arts dojo should not be exempt from that trying of spirit, to discern if The One True God is in that dojo, or if it is given over to devils.
When I began studying the martial arts, I was not in Church, or following God, so after I did give control of my life over to God, I began reevaluating everything that I thought I knew before. Martial arts was part of that, I prayed a great deal, very earnestly to know if it was God's will for me to practice the martial arts, as I didn't want to do the wrong thing. God confirmed that it was His will for me to study, and through prayer, Bible study, and the counsel of others, I've come to understand that martial arts is in fact very important.
So, yup, loving this thread.
I will leave this warning with any prospective martial artists. Most slasher films will become completely useless to you after studying the martial arts. What used to induce fear, or excitement, will now induce dull, blan frustration as you consider all the many ways they could dispatch their would be killer. ....Just sayin' lol