Thunder Peel
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Do they get to use those cool coconut phones to talk to each other?
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Do they get to use those cool coconut phones to talk to each other?
I read an article a while back about married couples who live separately and maintain separate lives while still maintaining their marital relationship. I found it quite interesting. I thought that for someone like myself who needs a lot of space, it would be a perfect arrangement if I do get married. Apparently, the married couples featured within the article had very strong and successful relationships.
What is your take on this? Would you be interested in an arrangement like this?
If it works for them, fine. It most certainly wouldn't work for me. It would defeat the whole purpose of being married. And I do have trouble believing that everything is okay in a relationship between two people who don't actually enjoy each other's company enough to LIVE TOGETHER. Marriage is about sharing a LIFE, not just about sharing a bed, or sharing a house, or jointly raising children. I would hope that such people eventually outgrow whatever it is that is preventing them from sharing their lives with each other.
This. Most people aren't introverts, so they don't understand our need to be alone.Introverts need their sanctuary no ifs, ands, or buts.
I am an introvert as well. I do not see how a need for personal space could ever translate to living separately from someone within a healthy relationship.
Yes. Someone who gets it. Thank you.The need for separation depends on where on the introversion spectrum you fall. Some need more, some need less.
I don't think completely separate lives where you never see each other is what this thread is about, just living separate lives within the one you share: you are still sharing your life, but maintaining your own space which give you the room required to breathe.
I read an article a while back about married couples who live separately and maintain separate lives while still maintaining their marital relationship. I found it quite interesting. I thought that for someone like myself who needs a lot of space, it would be a perfect arrangement if I do get married. Apparently, the married couples featured within the article had very strong and successful relationships.
What is your take on this? Would you be interested in an arrangement like this?